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So I totally understand AR but what do you do once she is in it?
See my field report for the background if you like:
viewtopic.php?f=5&t=2371
she was really into me after date one and was texting me loads...... so looks like I didn't text her enough and she's gone into auto rejection - she still came over BUT she wouldn't let me touch her when she came in and we had sex BUT - she refused to kiss me - said that I "missed your chance - I just go off people that don't text me - loose interest" - we hung out for the whole day after in the park verbally she was nice and I even gently fingered her there - BUT she was still refusing to kiss me properly like she did the night before.....
How do I handle the AR....
I might have gone overboard - I tried manhandle kissing her about 5 times (across the whole day so quite spaced out) also kissed her face/eyes quite a bit - most that happend was kissing on lips - she was not engaged - I was trying to soften her up! - Now it seems totally ridiculous what I was doing.... not sure how to correct for AR and too much kissing/chasing since they are opposites!
She is texting me but its a little colder...... I know I had it at the start - everything would have been perfect if we'd met few days after rather than 6 days after (thinking was her not wanting it cause of period and sprezzatura) - DONT LET TIME ELAPSE
See my field report for the background if you like:
viewtopic.php?f=5&t=2371
she was really into me after date one and was texting me loads...... so looks like I didn't text her enough and she's gone into auto rejection - she still came over BUT she wouldn't let me touch her when she came in and we had sex BUT - she refused to kiss me - said that I "missed your chance - I just go off people that don't text me - loose interest" - we hung out for the whole day after in the park verbally she was nice and I even gently fingered her there - BUT she was still refusing to kiss me properly like she did the night before.....
How do I handle the AR....
I might have gone overboard - I tried manhandle kissing her about 5 times (across the whole day so quite spaced out) also kissed her face/eyes quite a bit - most that happend was kissing on lips - she was not engaged - I was trying to soften her up! - Now it seems totally ridiculous what I was doing.... not sure how to correct for AR and too much kissing/chasing since they are opposites!
She is texting me but its a little colder...... I know I had it at the start - everything would have been perfect if we'd met few days after rather than 6 days after (thinking was her not wanting it cause of period and sprezzatura) - DONT LET TIME ELAPSE
