How to handle languages barrier?

[SamZee]

I move to other country(in Africa) recently and they are very conservative community. I am beginner in every thing but I done some approach but due to the girl's shy behavior, language barrier, and the approach itself make them uncomfortable and leave me before I even start the conversation. my style(the type I am comfortable with) is direct game, look in their eye(not stare), smile and then compliment them. To do indirect game I have language barrier.

 

[egorkluch]

I have a language barrier too — I’m from Russia. I’ve even had situations where the girl was the one apologizing because I didn’t understand her But it’s still hard for me to feel truly confident for this. A turning point for me was when I start going to ecstatic dance — because there you don’t have to speak — and I can feel my confidence growing.

I already have some ideas on how to start playing day/night game now that I feel more confident and free — but I’ll share them later, once I’ve tested them.

Anyway, I’m not pushing myself yet — not until I can at least dance one full track with a girl at ecstatic. For now, I last about 10 seconds — but at least I’ve started. The main goal for me right now is to stay in contact — even when I feel lost and have no idea what to do. Sometimes I even start to panic and can’t breathe when I run out of inner resources — and dance is a great way to work through that.

 

[SamZee]

I have a language barrier too — I’m from Russia. I’ve even had situations where the girl was the one apologizing because I didn’t understand her But it’s still hard for me to feel truly confident for this. A turning point for me was when I start going to ecstatic dance — because there you don’t have to speak — and I can feel my confidence growing.

I already have some ideas on how to start playing day/night game now that I feel more confident and free — but I’ll share them later, once I’ve tested them.

Anyway, I’m not pushing myself yet — not until I can at least dance one full track with a girl at ecstatic. For now, I last about 10 seconds — but at least I’ve started. The main goal for me right now is to stay in contact — even when I feel lost and have no idea what to do. Sometimes I even start to panic and can’t breathe when I run out of inner resources — and dance is a great way to work through that.

Small steps are great way to collect little wins and gain confidence easily. Keep it up bro