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Reflecting on my journey thus far, I've realized that one major issue in the last relationship I was in was that the woman was not strong enough. Actually, she was strong in some regards, but not in others (namely standing up to her family and traditions).
I was browsing the How Victim Mentality Can Stifle Your Life aritcle and noticed a little gem by Chase in the comments about how he is disgusted by expressions of victim mentality, and as a result also does not tolerate weak people around him.
I'm still at the stage where I need to experiment more have more sexual partners, so this aspect of having a strong woman (for a longer-term relationship), is not crucial now. But, it's important to develop standards and understand where to draw the line.
I'm wondering:
1. What are efficient ways and tactful of identifying if a woman is strong?
2. If she's not, how do you politely move on after finding this information out if she's serious about you and doesn't want to just have a fuckbuddy?
I was browsing the How Victim Mentality Can Stifle Your Life aritcle and noticed a little gem by Chase in the comments about how he is disgusted by expressions of victim mentality, and as a result also does not tolerate weak people around him.
I'm still at the stage where I need to experiment more have more sexual partners, so this aspect of having a strong woman (for a longer-term relationship), is not crucial now. But, it's important to develop standards and understand where to draw the line.
I'm wondering:
1. What are efficient ways and tactful of identifying if a woman is strong?
2. If she's not, how do you politely move on after finding this information out if she's serious about you and doesn't want to just have a fuckbuddy?