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How to identify if a woman is strong and what to do if she's not

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Reflecting on my journey thus far, I've realized that one major issue in the last relationship I was in was that the woman was not strong enough. Actually, she was strong in some regards, but not in others (namely standing up to her family and traditions).

I was browsing the How Victim Mentality Can Stifle Your Life aritcle and noticed a little gem by Chase in the comments about how he is disgusted by expressions of victim mentality, and as a result also does not tolerate weak people around him.

I'm still at the stage where I need to experiment more have more sexual partners, so this aspect of having a strong woman (for a longer-term relationship), is not crucial now. But, it's important to develop standards and understand where to draw the line.

I'm wondering:
1. What are efficient ways and tactful of identifying if a woman is strong?
2. If she's not, how do you politely move on after finding this information out if she's serious about you and doesn't want to just have a fuckbuddy?
 
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Drck

Cro-Magnon Man
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What do you exactly mean by strong woman?

Strong woman knows what she wants, she goes after it. She makes her own decisions, perhaps she even refuses to follow man's leadership. She is most likely career oriented, making enough of her own money, independent of a man. If you watch FoxNews, Perhaps Kelly from The Kelly File is an example of strong woman.

Strong is associated with dominance. If she is too dominant she will not follow you, unless you sort of prove that you are dominant as well, perhaps in another area.... different approach is needed, unless you are fine being submissive...
 
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