Hello,
in one of our courses (it is called, roughly translated as: training of social and managing skills) we have to stand up and say something about ourselves to others in class (not timely limited, but people talk about 2 minutes). There is 18 of us in total. There are like 9 girls. I find it as a good opportunity to try some stuff. So...
Edit: A year ago I had a course where we had to do the exact same thing and I botched it because I spoke from the heart and was quite down at that time. So that is why I ask you guys here
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As I read Chase's article about dating in class... class = instant social circle which means we will keep seeing each other for like 7 weeks, then we have a trip for a whole weekend together to remote location where we will train.
Second, I read an article How to talk about yourself on dates: https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-t ... self-dates and thought that would be the way to go. Meaning, describing myself as "a legendary figure". I dont like the idea that much but I will trust the article.
So my question could be derived and put differently like:
- How do I remain some mystery about myself?
- How ambiguously can I describe myself, what can I talk about clearly and what not (like my thoguths, what I do, what I did in past, what I focus on now, my future, how I feel about some stuff)
- Should I follow the advice of the article about (legedary figure), meaning start about loses and difficult past and then how I overcame the obstacles?
- Do I talk about what I like and dislike?
As I said, my best bet now is the approach of the article above because I had difficult childhood and compared to that I have to say I am in quite a happy place now emotionally. But, would there be any drawbacks to it?
Thank you for any input.
in one of our courses (it is called, roughly translated as: training of social and managing skills) we have to stand up and say something about ourselves to others in class (not timely limited, but people talk about 2 minutes). There is 18 of us in total. There are like 9 girls. I find it as a good opportunity to try some stuff. So...
Edit: A year ago I had a course where we had to do the exact same thing and I botched it because I spoke from the heart and was quite down at that time. So that is why I ask you guys here
/end of the editAs I read Chase's article about dating in class... class = instant social circle which means we will keep seeing each other for like 7 weeks, then we have a trip for a whole weekend together to remote location where we will train.
Second, I read an article How to talk about yourself on dates: https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-t ... self-dates and thought that would be the way to go. Meaning, describing myself as "a legendary figure". I dont like the idea that much but I will trust the article.
So my question could be derived and put differently like:
- How do I remain some mystery about myself?
- How ambiguously can I describe myself, what can I talk about clearly and what not (like my thoguths, what I do, what I did in past, what I focus on now, my future, how I feel about some stuff)
- Should I follow the advice of the article about (legedary figure), meaning start about loses and difficult past and then how I overcame the obstacles?
- Do I talk about what I like and dislike?
As I said, my best bet now is the approach of the article above because I had difficult childhood and compared to that I have to say I am in quite a happy place now emotionally. But, would there be any drawbacks to it?
Thank you for any input.
