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I'm struggling with this lately. Here's an example from last night
I see a cute girl walking by me at the bar i'm at (i'm in college so everyone at the bar is a college student), so I immediately turn to her and direct open her with something like "wow you're so beautiful, blah blah blah." 5-10 minutes of BS later, i'm making out with her.
I don't like to make out with girls that much at parties/bars so I only do it for like 5 minutes. She starts to get more and more into it and I stop. She's clearly into me and seems like she's down to fuck so making out more could only make things worse by making her too satisfied just with the kissing and grinding. HERE is where I'm lost though. I wanna take her back to my place and this is basically what I ask her: "let's go back to my place?"
She says something along the lines of her visiting my school with her friends but needing to go back to her college later that night. It's still kinda early so we probably would have had time for sex anyway, but i don't care about pushing it that much. I make one or 2 more stabs at her going back with me, but she won't ditch her friends so I get her number and leave her.
This has been happening a few times lately. I'll approach a girl, talk to her, make out with her a bit, talk more, but then when I invite her back to my place it all falls apart. Someone help me out, what am I doing wrong?? Am I being too direct? Should I ask her if she wants to grab some late night food and then when we're away from her friends invite her back?
I see a cute girl walking by me at the bar i'm at (i'm in college so everyone at the bar is a college student), so I immediately turn to her and direct open her with something like "wow you're so beautiful, blah blah blah." 5-10 minutes of BS later, i'm making out with her.
I don't like to make out with girls that much at parties/bars so I only do it for like 5 minutes. She starts to get more and more into it and I stop. She's clearly into me and seems like she's down to fuck so making out more could only make things worse by making her too satisfied just with the kissing and grinding. HERE is where I'm lost though. I wanna take her back to my place and this is basically what I ask her: "let's go back to my place?"
She says something along the lines of her visiting my school with her friends but needing to go back to her college later that night. It's still kinda early so we probably would have had time for sex anyway, but i don't care about pushing it that much. I make one or 2 more stabs at her going back with me, but she won't ditch her friends so I get her number and leave her.
This has been happening a few times lately. I'll approach a girl, talk to her, make out with her a bit, talk more, but then when I invite her back to my place it all falls apart. Someone help me out, what am I doing wrong?? Am I being too direct? Should I ask her if she wants to grab some late night food and then when we're away from her friends invite her back?