How to keep side chicks on the DL (phone)

[determined]

I'm in a one sided open relationship. Only condition is my gf wants me to keep it on the DL so she can feel like she's the only one. My biggest worry is using my phone near her. While she'd never go prying in there, if she just happens to glance over my shoulder when I'm using WhatsApp/texts, she'd see texts from other girls. I also worry when handing her my phone to show her something because I might get an incoming text from some girl. While I'm technically allowed, it'd make her feel bad and would bring unnecessary drama.

I want to be able to use my phone freely when I'm with her. I've already disabled notifications to some extent, but wondering if there's a more robust solution. I'm sure I'm not the first in this situation, so I wonder if anyone has any tips?

 

[DoWhatWorks]

1. Keep texting to mostly logistics once every week or 2 to reduce the chance of side girls popping up.

2. Add them all on whatsapp then archive their messages so when they respond you get no notifications. Instead you'll just see a number of all your unread messages from people you've archived.

3. When you're with your GF keep your phone away. Part of how you'll make one sided work is you giving her a great experience when she's with you and you not being distracted/texting is a part of that.

 

[Regal Tiger]

I'm in a one sided open relationship. Only condition is my gf wants me to keep it on the DL so she can feel like she's the only one. My biggest worry is using my phone near her. While she'd never go prying in there, if she just happens to glance over my shoulder when I'm using WhatsApp/texts, she'd see texts from other girls.

Keep an app for girls only, then don't use it around her

I also worry when handing her my phone to show her something because I might get an incoming text from some girl. While I'm technically allowed, it'd make her feel bad and would bring unnecessary drama.

Silence/do not disturb or etc. for whenever you hand your phone to someone. I learned why you should do this the not-so-fun way... she had amazing tits and was a done deal too, I still remember you Olivia and I really wanted to bang you

I want to be able to use my phone freely when I'm with her. I've already disabled notifications to some extent, but wondering if there's a more robust solution. I'm sure I'm not the first in this situation, so I wonder if anyone has any tips?

Those are the ones that I personally use. If you do go the route of using a specific app only for girls, then there might be a way to silence only that app? Not sure on that though

Side note; I personally use Google Voice for women. It's a free phone number that you can use that mostly uses wifi. If you're curious

 

[determined]

Archive on WhatsApp has been working perfectly!!

What do you guys think about the bed? I worry sometimes that if I let some of these girls spend time in my bed, the bed will smell noticeably of women. I'm trying to bang new girls on the couch which is leather, but I can't keep doing that if I want to keep seeing them lol.

 

[DoWhatWorks]

What do you guys think about the bed? I worry sometimes that if I let some of these girls spend time in my bed, the bed will smell noticeably of women.

Basic hygiene man should be replacing bed sheets every 2 weeks’ minimum regardless.

Failing that - “febreeze” is my go to spray that neutralises odours

 

[determined]

Haha yes, replacing every 2 weeks is a must. I'm thinking about the very next day. I'll try fabreeze!

 

[Zoro]

Keep an eye for hair strands laying around. Your girl probably won’t like finding one of those.

 

[determined]

Keep an eye for hair strands laying around. Your girl probably won’t like finding one of those.

Lol yes learned that one the hard way. Luckily it was a while back with a chick I didn't care about.