How to keep the party going as you get older (Colt Williams article)

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I recently read Colt's article about how easy it is to hook up at parties and looking back, it kinda fills me with regret that I was not able to capitalize on my college years as much. My high school was in ghetto California so the parties were not as good and a lot of the girls were far from hot. Now as I have left college, I still feel the need to live the partying lifestyle and it has been a major priority of mines.

Does anyone have ideas on how a guy out of college can keep that lifestyle going?

I honestly want to get drunk, get wild, and fuck a bunch of random girls.

Moral police please stay out (talking to you estate).

 

[Lawliet]

Which article is it?

 

[Lotus]

Dude you're overthinking it. It's not hard to have a party lifestyle after college. All you have to do is go out and drink in a central/ downtown location.

I had obligations in college where I couldn't party but one time a week so after college I amped up my partying, and all it took was to live downtown and to go out 3-4 times a week. There are always people in every city, even during the week. The trick to going out during the week is to find the bars with deals. Since less people go out during the week most places do have deals at some point during the week. You just have to find them.

Now being able to afford partying that much.... is a completely different question

 

[Estate]

Moral police please stay out (talking to you estate).

What the f*** man? What's this got to do with me?

I tried to offer help on other threads that's worked based on all I've learned from the experienced guys here and has literally changed my life. I'm I'm so grateful to them.
You've gone on rants and raves telling myself and other experienced guys to <expletive> off and told how "entitled" we are when we've tried to help you the same.... we're over it.

Nobody cares... same thread, different title. Over and over. Notice how all the experienced guys who used to reply to your threads (because they saaw your pain and genuinely cared!) have just stopped replying. Your anger, hatred and insults are just too much now.

I don't see why my name is brought into this without even making a post? Moral police? Ha, Jesus, I'm far from it. I'm not your parents coming here to slap you on the wrists.

Every single post on the same topic comes down to this. You want to get laid.
So go out to busy bars downtown. Talk to TONS of women, don't be a weirdo and one of those girls will be down to go home with you/give you their number/whatever. At the end of the day, we can break down every little nuance until we're blue in the face but this isn't rocket science. When you take action, and stop being so bitter and angry, it'll happen.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Moral police please stay out (talking to you estate).

What the f*** man? What's this got to do with me?

I tried to offer help on other threads that's worked based on all I've learned from the experienced guys here and has literally changed my life. I'm I'm so grateful to them.
You've gone on rants and raves telling myself and other experienced guys to <expletive> off and told how "entitled" we are when we've tried to help you the same.... we're over it.

Nobody cares... same thread, different title. Over and over. Notice how all the experienced guys who used to reply to your threads (because they saaw your pain and genuinely cared!) have just stopped replying. Your anger, hatred and insults are just too much now.

I don't see why my name is brought into this without even making a post? Moral police? Ha, Jesus, I'm far from it. I'm not your parents coming here to slap you on the wrists.

Every single post on the same topic comes down to this. You want to get laid.
So go out to busy bars downtown. Talk to TONS of women, don't be a weirdo and one of those girls will be down to go home with you/give you their number/whatever. At the end of the day, we can break down every little nuance until we're blue in the face but this isn't rocket science. When you take action, and stop being so bitter and angry, it'll happen.

Maybe I was harsh with what I said but I am tired of you coming on to my threads and giving insight, I simply do not want it and feel that you're very sensitive and temperamental. You are not the kind of guy I would ask for advice from in general, nothing personal, and you take things way too personally.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Which article is it?

this one


https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-g ... 0%99s-easy

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Dude you're overthinking it. It's not hard to have a party lifestyle after college. All you have to do is go out and drink in a central/ downtown location.

I had obligations in college where I couldn't party but one time a week so after college I amped up my partying, and all it took was to live downtown and to go out 3-4 times a week. There are always people in every city, even during the week. The trick to going out during the week is to find the bars with deals. Since less people go out during the week most places do have deals at some point during the week. You just have to find them.

Now being able to afford partying that much.... is a completely different question

The thing is, I want the craziness though. I don't just want to go out to bars or anything. I want the hot tub parties with cute girls, themed parties, the crazy drunk parties where crazy shit happens, and that kind of stuff. I do not want the peaceful bar scene type of parties you know....

 

[Estate]

Moral police please stay out (talking to you estate).

What the f*** man? What's this got to do with me?

I tried to offer help on other threads that's worked based on all I've learned from the experienced guys here and has literally changed my life. I'm I'm so grateful to them.
You've gone on rants and raves telling myself and other experienced guys to <expletive> off and told how "entitled" we are when we've tried to help you the same.... we're over it.

Nobody cares... same thread, different title. Over and over. Notice how all the experienced guys who used to reply to your threads (because they saaw your pain and genuinely cared!) have just stopped replying. Your anger, hatred and insults are just too much now.

I don't see why my name is brought into this without even making a post? Moral police? Ha, Jesus, I'm far from it. I'm not your parents coming here to slap you on the wrists.

Every single post on the same topic comes down to this. You want to get laid.
So go out to busy bars downtown. Talk to TONS of women, don't be a weirdo and one of those girls will be down to go home with you/give you their number/whatever. At the end of the day, we can break down every little nuance until we're blue in the face but this isn't rocket science. When you take action, and stop being so bitter and angry, it'll happen.

Maybe I was harsh with what I said but I am tired of you coming on to my threads and giving insight, I simply do not want it and feel that you're very sensitive and temperamental. You are not the kind of guy I would ask for advice from in general, nothing personal, and you take things way too personally.

Leave me out of your drama. Please. Why my name was mentioned in the title post I have no idea.

Just stop. I literally don't care anymore. Nobody cares.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Moral police please stay out (talking to you estate).

What the f*** man? What's this got to do with me?

I tried to offer help on other threads that's worked based on all I've learned from the experienced guys here and has literally changed my life. I'm I'm so grateful to them.
You've gone on rants and raves telling myself and other experienced guys to <expletive> off and told how "entitled" we are when we've tried to help you the same.... we're over it.

Nobody cares... same thread, different title. Over and over. Notice how all the experienced guys who used to reply to your threads (because they saaw your pain and genuinely cared!) have just stopped replying. Your anger, hatred and insults are just too much now.

I don't see why my name is brought into this without even making a post? Moral police? Ha, Jesus, I'm far from it. I'm not your parents coming here to slap you on the wrists.

Every single post on the same topic comes down to this. You want to get laid.
So go out to busy bars downtown. Talk to TONS of women, don't be a weirdo and one of those girls will be down to go home with you/give you their number/whatever. At the end of the day, we can break down every little nuance until we're blue in the face but this isn't rocket science. When you take action, and stop being so bitter and angry, it'll happen.

Maybe I was harsh with what I said but I am tired of you coming on to my threads and giving insight, I simply do not want it and feel that you're very sensitive and temperamental. You are not the kind of guy I would ask for advice from in general, nothing personal, and you take things way too personally.

Leave me out of your drama. Please. Why my name was mentioned in the title post I have no idea.

Just stop. I literally don't care anymore. Nobody cares.

Cool!

 

[Lawliet]

You can club and enjoy nightlife. The same alcohol, wild life, partying to music and sex.

Usually depending on your city (if it's populated) will have night events going on.
And reason for it being at night is... (You guessed it!) exactly what you're looking for

Or just go to night clubs, dance clubs and you'll be in the wild pretty soon.
And it gets better. You go there a lot, people know you and start chatting you up and invite you to much private parties.
You're not the only wild one. Wild gets the wild bro!

Lawliet

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Throw your own parties... Searched the threads for warped mindless and read his post on it. Other wise go to bars and nightclubs. Also, just start hanging with college kids who do a lot of drugs/throw lots of parties. It should be easy to make/have lots of college friends if you've recently graduated.

Radeng

The thing is, how are you going to get a lot of hot girls to come to those parties?

 

[Chase]

Oh Pry's been warned about starting flame wars.

Oh Pry, check out the article on time orientation:

Time Orientation and Suitable Romantic Pairings

You'll find you get a lot more of the things you want in your life if you shift from past-oriented (nostalgia, regret) to present oriented (pleasure) or future oriented (building).

Bars and nightclubs are the parties of the post-college world. There are after-parties after bars and nightclubs, but you typically need to be fairly well-connected in the bar/club world to find them and get into them, or aggressive at approaching in bars and clubs and good at making the right impressions with the right people, which typically requires an intimate knowledge of clubs/bars. Additionally, since most of the people who go to parties post-college also frequent clubs and bars a lot, if you want to host your own parties you will need to go to these places to find the right people, as well as to learn the kinds of environments they enjoy - you're going to want to attend a lot of after-college parties to learn what a good post-college party looks like. It's hard to get right, and if you throw a single crappy party don't expect to see the guests you invited ever again.

If nightlife is out, your next best option is joining an organization that throws parties. Yelp, Meetup, various religious organizations (churches, synagogues, mosques), networking and young professionals organizations, all throw parties of some sort or other. You're probably not going to get wild and shag at these though. For that, you want clubs and after parties.

Your only other option than this is going to raves. There are usually Facebook groups that announce where these will be. If you're in California they're often in the desert; if you're in New York they can be in abandoned subway tunnels. Again, to find these groups (which are often hard to find and always invite-only, to keep them away from the prying eyes of the police), you will typically need to be very plugged into the nightlife scene, which, again, means bars and clubs.

Main problem is you have two goals here, and they directly oppose each other:

• I want to go to wild parties, get shitfaced, and shag hotties
• I don't want to go to bars and nightclubs

That's kind of like saying I want to have sex but I don't want to get my dick wet or wear a condom, or I want to eat a hamburger but not with bread or meat. Not a whole lot of options left in that case.

Chase

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Message read about the warning.

Damn man, this is kinda depressing to hear as someone who never had the chance to experience the party lifestyle in college. I mean on one hand, I am more informed about life now as a guy in his mid 20s but on the other, I really do want to get those wild and crazy like fucking shit crazy parties in my life...

Are you sure that there is literally no way an older guy can get those crazy house parties? I mean if you were a James Franco type of smooth guy, do you think some college kids would be cool with having you in their parties?