I am trying to set up a date with a girl that I know from social circle and who is a legit 8,5. So kind of above my league. And she is flaky.
A friend of mine, a natural very good with women (lay count north of 300), looked into my texting and told me that the problem is that I don't make her feel wanted enough/I don't show my desire enough in my texting.
I have tried to ask him specific things to say but he answers me with no specific things. He just tells me that I am afraid to show my desire because I am afraid of rejection because I lack balls. And that she shows not much interest in meeting me because she doesn't see the point.
He also told me that he got plenty of girls above of his league by being very persistent, but it's a kind of persistence where he shows his desire at the same time.
So how we do that exactly? It's like this is the recipe of his game. He uses a mix of fearless persistence loaded with communication of his desire. But I am pretty sure if I try to do that with only these pointers and guidelines, I am going to come across as needy.
So how to be persistent, and convey desire, without being needy?
A friend of mine, a natural very good with women (lay count north of 300), looked into my texting and told me that the problem is that I don't make her feel wanted enough/I don't show my desire enough in my texting.
I have tried to ask him specific things to say but he answers me with no specific things. He just tells me that I am afraid to show my desire because I am afraid of rejection because I lack balls. And that she shows not much interest in meeting me because she doesn't see the point.
He also told me that he got plenty of girls above of his league by being very persistent, but it's a kind of persistence where he shows his desire at the same time.
So how we do that exactly? It's like this is the recipe of his game. He uses a mix of fearless persistence loaded with communication of his desire. But I am pretty sure if I try to do that with only these pointers and guidelines, I am going to come across as needy.
So how to be persistent, and convey desire, without being needy?
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