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So guys, i see some of you are doing things kind of right, some of you still doing same old bad habits, the guys that are actually listening, have totally exponentially improved results or adapted to their style what i have been preaching, the stubborn ones, same crap..
Anyways guys though the title is soft closes, i will take advantage and tell you some things i have seen that is total shit!:
Please, stop with the "haha" and "lol" rapport seeking behavior that shit is weak and totally dries vaginas, i don't do haha or lols unless similar to grandmaster i say something sexual or crude and to soften it i may throw an lol after my statement example "busted 3.45 times to your picture could not make it to 4 i was drained" depending on the girl based on my intuition and calibration, i may throw an lol, for example if she is like a heavy Christian, but don't do the lols and hahas please, 99% of women are as funny as paint dry aka no funny at all, there is nothing to lol or haha about is seeking rapport nice guy dry vagina behavior...
For god sake learn how to flirt, for the life of me i read text convos about shit... no sexual flirting, no seductive topics... I really can not teach you how to flirt through text (though go to my cheesy pick up banter and lines series and get ideas) but learn how to flirt and lead the convos to seductive topics or meet baits...
Now here is the most important part about texting even if you don't agree with anything i say, field test please and see how your results will sky rocket....
The normal pua structure: open > hard close "pua from the mall, how does your schedule looks like?"
The skill structure: open(have her text you, or continue convo thread)>banter>at HIGH POINT OF INTERACTION/INVESTMENT ONLY, SOFT CLOSE> now keep her on the straight line don't let her deviate from the soft close if she does not address it (don't change the subject, i asked _______ subject)>if she bites on soft close then AND ONLY THEN HARD CLOSE> if not cont. banter and rinse wash repeat....
So here are some soft closes samples that i use, some are mine, some are adaptation of different seducers such as cocporn,bd,pwf,pob or my own(live sample later) this is the one i use the most base on going through my texts, again post high point of interaction:
Anyways (to change arruptively convo thread) follow by hb name > follow by suggestion >follow by very low pressure call to action:
"anyway Brenda maybe we should have a quick meet and greet when you have some time to see if the vibe is there in person, something low pressure like coffe or a drink"
Wait for response....
Celebration soft closes.- This are to be done when she made any silly accomplishment such as "i just took a test", "i got a job", "promotion", change jobs, move to city, beat a parking ticket, ___________ accomplishment even if is a ridiculous one you can make it into an accomplishment that deserves celebration....
"we should celebrate" and then follow by a call to action... We should celebrate by splitting a bottle of wine in my romantic balcony (Don't get caught up on the word romantic you are obviously being sarcastic)...If she does not like wine, call her out and say "is the intention that counts what drink do you like, ok so let me rephrase we should celebrate by having some margaritas in my romantic balcony" even if you don't have a balcony is does not matter, "oh i was trying to make it sound romantic", i for example don't have a balcony, she will forgive when your dick is deep inside her pussy walls, trust me...
"invite me over" this i used to use a lot when i have live ins... "you should invite me over for a movie", i used this a lot back in the days, i don't use it much anymore...(but got laid a lot some of my lay reports are samples of this)...
"you should do __________ (activity) with a sexy or handsome or _________ fill in the black personal characteristic that is obviously you.... "you should take a break from all that stress and have fun dancing with a tall sexy latin handsome dude"
this one for you peter... Something you are doing to impress her when you meet, this is to be done if she ask you what are you doing? More for the obvious players type looking/acting guys to soften playerish vibe using "romantic date" can work cause she already knows we are not "providers/nice guys" a lot of you without this type of vibe should use the work "fun meet and great or fun encounter" or the likes: "i am at the gym looking pump and fit for our romantic date" credit. pwf "i am at the mall buying clothes so i can look sexy for our romantic date"
massages soft closes: hard day at work, stresses, bad incident, tense etc..... "sounds awful, i have an idea, how about about give you one of my amazing massages, not based on me but on women to relieve your stress, i got a warn you, sorry i don't do happy endings" = i used to do this a lot if you follow my stuff...
From pob soft closes(fog got laid using the netflix and chilled recycled):
Netflix and chill recycled: "Look, I'm planning on watching Loki on Disney+ after work...did you see the last trailer? Seems really fun!" "Oops, I don't like marvel" Really? Damn, I got to remember to hide my fake Cap shield when you come back here. What you watching now? Blablabla. Wow, that looks amazing! What is it about? Blablabla. Sounds cool! Tell you what, why don't we watch it together and you can fill me in on the details?"
Future travels: "Look, once this covid crisis is over, I'm planning on taking a long vacation abroad. Have you ever heard of this place called New Caledonia? Check this out (send her a photo). Don't you wish you could close your eyes and teleport yourself to that place? To feel the breeze on your face, the fresh air of the waves caressing your skin, to lay down and let nature sunbathe your whole body...blablabla. OMG, I so want this! Then you should def come here and help me figure this place out!"
p.s. if you guys have other soft closes to share or if i think of others i used i will update....
sample (for the nitpickers, i use the online one, cause is short, i don't want to be 3 hours uploading pics, i do the same shit in person, and i have not done online in 1 year):
Anyways guys though the title is soft closes, i will take advantage and tell you some things i have seen that is total shit!:
Please, stop with the "haha" and "lol" rapport seeking behavior that shit is weak and totally dries vaginas, i don't do haha or lols unless similar to grandmaster i say something sexual or crude and to soften it i may throw an lol after my statement example "busted 3.45 times to your picture could not make it to 4 i was drained" depending on the girl based on my intuition and calibration, i may throw an lol, for example if she is like a heavy Christian, but don't do the lols and hahas please, 99% of women are as funny as paint dry aka no funny at all, there is nothing to lol or haha about is seeking rapport nice guy dry vagina behavior...
For god sake learn how to flirt, for the life of me i read text convos about shit... no sexual flirting, no seductive topics... I really can not teach you how to flirt through text (though go to my cheesy pick up banter and lines series and get ideas) but learn how to flirt and lead the convos to seductive topics or meet baits...
Now here is the most important part about texting even if you don't agree with anything i say, field test please and see how your results will sky rocket....
The normal pua structure: open > hard close "pua from the mall, how does your schedule looks like?"
The skill structure: open(have her text you, or continue convo thread)>banter>at HIGH POINT OF INTERACTION/INVESTMENT ONLY, SOFT CLOSE> now keep her on the straight line don't let her deviate from the soft close if she does not address it (don't change the subject, i asked _______ subject)>if she bites on soft close then AND ONLY THEN HARD CLOSE> if not cont. banter and rinse wash repeat....
So here are some soft closes samples that i use, some are mine, some are adaptation of different seducers such as cocporn,bd,pwf,pob or my own(live sample later) this is the one i use the most base on going through my texts, again post high point of interaction:
Anyways (to change arruptively convo thread) follow by hb name > follow by suggestion >follow by very low pressure call to action:
"anyway Brenda maybe we should have a quick meet and greet when you have some time to see if the vibe is there in person, something low pressure like coffe or a drink"
Wait for response....
Celebration soft closes.- This are to be done when she made any silly accomplishment such as "i just took a test", "i got a job", "promotion", change jobs, move to city, beat a parking ticket, ___________ accomplishment even if is a ridiculous one you can make it into an accomplishment that deserves celebration....
"we should celebrate" and then follow by a call to action... We should celebrate by splitting a bottle of wine in my romantic balcony (Don't get caught up on the word romantic you are obviously being sarcastic)...If she does not like wine, call her out and say "is the intention that counts what drink do you like, ok so let me rephrase we should celebrate by having some margaritas in my romantic balcony" even if you don't have a balcony is does not matter, "oh i was trying to make it sound romantic", i for example don't have a balcony, she will forgive when your dick is deep inside her pussy walls, trust me...
"invite me over" this i used to use a lot when i have live ins... "you should invite me over for a movie", i used this a lot back in the days, i don't use it much anymore...(but got laid a lot some of my lay reports are samples of this)...
"you should do __________ (activity) with a sexy or handsome or _________ fill in the black personal characteristic that is obviously you.... "you should take a break from all that stress and have fun dancing with a tall sexy latin handsome dude"
this one for you peter... Something you are doing to impress her when you meet, this is to be done if she ask you what are you doing? More for the obvious players type looking/acting guys to soften playerish vibe using "romantic date" can work cause she already knows we are not "providers/nice guys" a lot of you without this type of vibe should use the work "fun meet and great or fun encounter" or the likes: "i am at the gym looking pump and fit for our romantic date" credit. pwf "i am at the mall buying clothes so i can look sexy for our romantic date"
massages soft closes: hard day at work, stresses, bad incident, tense etc..... "sounds awful, i have an idea, how about about give you one of my amazing massages, not based on me but on women to relieve your stress, i got a warn you, sorry i don't do happy endings" = i used to do this a lot if you follow my stuff...
From pob soft closes(fog got laid using the netflix and chilled recycled):
Netflix and chill recycled: "Look, I'm planning on watching Loki on Disney+ after work...did you see the last trailer? Seems really fun!" "Oops, I don't like marvel" Really? Damn, I got to remember to hide my fake Cap shield when you come back here. What you watching now? Blablabla. Wow, that looks amazing! What is it about? Blablabla. Sounds cool! Tell you what, why don't we watch it together and you can fill me in on the details?"
Future travels: "Look, once this covid crisis is over, I'm planning on taking a long vacation abroad. Have you ever heard of this place called New Caledonia? Check this out (send her a photo). Don't you wish you could close your eyes and teleport yourself to that place? To feel the breeze on your face, the fresh air of the waves caressing your skin, to lay down and let nature sunbathe your whole body...blablabla. OMG, I so want this! Then you should def come here and help me figure this place out!"
p.s. if you guys have other soft closes to share or if i think of others i used i will update....
sample (for the nitpickers, i use the online one, cause is short, i don't want to be 3 hours uploading pics, i do the same shit in person, and i have not done online in 1 year):
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