How to make her chase me again?

[Lithuanian]

Hey, guys,

I'm meeting this new girl, but I made a mistake and turned balance in her way, so I'm chasing her. We haven't had sex with her and she's guaranteed virgin, though 26 years old. She haven't had a boyfriend in her life (she doesn't know how to act in a relationship). Strangely, she allows me to touch her almost everywere, even her ass, but avoids kissing her. I said to her that I like her and from then on she started to act a bit more openly, but recently she started toying with me a bit. I know she likes me, but as you see I made lots of mistakes, because I thought she is the girl which likes good guys, maybe because she is very much outcome independent (it seems she doesn't need men and could walk away anytime).

So I want to weigh balance into my side, so she would start to chase me again (she did it at the begining). What would suggest?

P. S. I'm meeting other girls at the same time, but just don't want to give up on this one.

 

[Skid]

Invest less , so that she has to fill the void : its percentage based the full 100% has to be full all the time else the relationship whatever it is breaks down. If you change your investment from 60% to 40% she has to change hers from 40% to 60% if she wants whatever you have to continue. I'm not sure in what form the investment levels have changed whether its texting or during your conversations sounds like it could be conversations - stop telling her you like her , stop telling her you're going to call her the next day or you're going to hang out soon. Oh, and you should bed her.

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

Lithuanian,

Like Skid said, make her make the next contact. If you give us further details of your interaction with her we can help out more. Also i am curious how you are so confident she is a virgin?

BDSC

 

[Lithuanian]

@Skid Yes, it's about conversations. I don't text her at all, I just call her. We have a distance problem - she works in another city and goes back home (where I live) only on weekends. And then we don't meet every weekend. One weekend she goes near sea with her mom, sometimes she has some work (she is working from home on weekends, so if she wanted she'd meet me). I showed her I'm really upset that we don't meet on some of the weekends and it was my mistake that I showed myself as needy, I don't repeat this mistake, but she almost never calls me, she says she doesn't want to bother me.

I know she is a virgin, because she acts like inexperienced girl (form Chase's article). I asked her once about her past boyfriends and she just said that 'you can talk good things about your ex or nothing'. She doesn't know how to act being with boyfriend, how to be sexy etc. She most often just like to sit with me while holding her head on my shoulder.

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

Lithuanian,

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but you are pretty much done with this girl.

I showed her I'm really upset that we don't meet on some of the weekends and it was my mistake that I showed myself as needy, I don't repeat this mistake, but she almost never calls me, she says she doesn't want to bother me.

She is just letting you hang around a bit. It is time to focus on more new women. Don't waste anymore time on her.

BDSC

 

[Lithuanian]

Well, she said these things from the begining, and just recently broke the ice and called me and offered to meet, because she couldn't the next day.

 

[Skid]

I disagree with bigdaddy. Don't think you are 100% done with this girl especially if she was saying things like she doesn't want to bother you from the beginning - for me that means she likes you because she values what you think of her. If she is inexperienced chances are she is just really nervous about contacting you first just keep in contact with her the same amount as what you have always done - if you ever feel like she isn't investing enough just cut contact and wait for her to break the ice. If she feels as tho its her fault your connection is crumbling she will.