How to meet a lot of hot girls after college if you are stuck in the USA?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Even though my college days for the most part sucked, the one thing I do miss is the fact that I was constantly surrounded by hot girls and had the chance to see them walking around. After college, I find that this is difficult to meet nearly as many attractive women or even see them as much as I used to.

Now college towns would be a good start but there are some issues there. For one, college circles are going to be tight which makes it hard to meet women. The other thing is that a lot of what happens in the town revolves around the college campus so unless you are a grad student there or work there, it is tough to really get involved. Even then a lot of the better jobs don't take you to college towns.

So that said, how do you meet a lot of hot girls after college in the USA? I read this article by Chase but I am looking for some more discussion on this as it seems like some cities just have some hideous looking women and the quality is low.

https://www.girlschase.com/content/top-1 ... meet-girls

 

[Franco]

Fuji,

Generally going to big city locations is the best way to still be around attractive women. If you can position yourself in a location that has a big university nearby a big city, then that's probably ideal. I live in San Diego myself, and there are plenty of universities here with hot college girls as well as a "downtown" area where all of them can go.

As I've discussed in other articles, if you still want to meet younger, college chicks, you want to position yourself close to the "mall-like" areas of that campus where girls are likely to shop for groceries/clothes/etc. I recommend setting up camp near the Whole Foods places nearby the college campus as those tend to draw plenty of attractive women.

You can also go near the beaches on the coast as well since those tend to draw more fit, healthy individuals who like to have beach bodies all year long.

There are some suburban places in Southern California that have really attractive girls, and they are generally the more "upscale" areas, or at least slightly above middle-class. You'd have to do some scouting or ask some friends to be sure.

It's really about location -- once you're there, you just have to approach women in places where they are likely to be by themselves, such as Whole Foods markets, Starbucks, etc.

- Franco

 

[FastRomeo]

In college it was cool and you can talk to anybody (like a team effort). Suddenly your out of school and the world changes. You can't talk to any girl because some are married or some are not allowed to even say hello or thanks for holding a door.
I would probably hit bars, clubs and talk to girls that look like they were just in college. Funny how some girls act like they just don't want nothing to socialize. While in a line I simply suggested something to this girl in line and all of the sudden she just went on talking and talking which was cool, instead of getting no response or look or get away from me, lol.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Franco, my fear with those suburban places you describe is that they might be extremely tight knit. By that I mean it feels like if you didn't grow up with those people, they will start to not associate with you. My fear is that these suburban areas of California can turn into real world Greek Life fast and I am all too familiar with that from my college days. On top of that, I am a Korean male and though I love White girls (almost exclusively these days), I feel that in a suburban type setting it will be a major hindrance for me. If there is evidence to the contrary, I will more than happily go there.

My goal is to just put myself in a situation where I am consistently just seeing hot girls on a daily basis and your suggestion for big city sounds good. San Diego is legit and I always wanted to live there, very expensive too though but I will work it out soon!

NYC and the northeast seem like awful places to meet beautiful women IMO, the women there looked so plain. Seattle has some talent if you are into the hipster girl types, lots of Aubrey Plaza and Zoey Deschannel types.

 

[Franco]

Fuji,

Franco, my fear with those suburban places you describe is that they might be extremely tight knit. By that I mean it feels like if you didn't grow up with those people, they will start to not associate with you. My fear is that these suburban areas of California can turn into real world Greek Life fast and I am all too familiar with that from my college days. On top of that, I am a Korean male and though I love White girls (almost exclusively these days), I feel that in a suburban type setting it will be a major hindrance for me. If there is evidence to the contrary, I will more than happily go there.

It really depends on how you're trying to meet women. The reason we recommend day-game cold approach is that it avoids all of this. If you're in a suburban area and you're meeting girls who are shopping by themselves, then absolutely none of the things you mentioned will hinder you since none of them are at play in those types of situations. Your fundamentals and your ability to move fast will always be a weapon in those scenarios where you don't even have to deal with her social circle face-to-face.

Now, if your goal is to run social circle game, make friends, and then try to meet girls through those friends, then yeah, suburban areas are quite "cliquey" in that sense. I wouldn't recommend going to a suburban area if that's your gameplan. At that point, you might as well move to a big city with a downtown area where social circles are enormous, and it's very easy to meet new people who are constantly willing to meet new people themselves. In bigger cities, it's not weird at all to constantly have a revolving cycle of new people in your life.

My goal is to just put myself in a situation where I am consistently just seeing hot girls on a daily basis and your suggestion for big city sounds good. San Diego is legit and I always wanted to live there, very expensive too though but I will work it out soon!

Los Angeles and Miami are probably also good places. There really are a ton of places that have attractive women, but you just have to do your research, ask friends, or visit places so you can see for yourself.

- Franco

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Miami = Too many latinas

I am into white girls. Seems like good looking white girls are much harder to find after you have finished college in the USA.

 

[BrownHole]

Lol what do you mean "stuck in the USA", you live in the largest developed nation in the world with the most oppurtunuties in almost every sphere imaginable bar none. I'm canadian and I wish I could live in the states man. Compare being stuck in a country with 30 million to being "stuck" in one with 300 million. Get out there man

 

[Chase]

Fuji-

When you have very particular tastes (like you do), you're going to want to make sure you've sampled a bunch of different places and picked one that satisfies those tastes.

It sounds like San Diego might be a good option. What it sounds like you are looking for: young, white, slim, blonde, fashionable, SD's the best city in the U.S. for that so far as I've seen.

Of course, there are a lot of guys there, because there are a lot of guys who want young, white, slim, blonde, fashionable women, so your game will be tested! You'll come out much stronger with women for it, however.

I've heard good things about Austin, so that might be worth checking out; Texas is pretty white, although Austin is supposedly more hippie-ish, so that might not meet your fashionability requirements (like NYC). Milwaukee has all of those things except blonde (but maybe that's a deal breaker), and I know a number of guys who've come out of Ann Arbor and liked it quite a bit - it's basically a big, huge college party town with a bunch of big schools and a huge college-age demographic (mostly all white people). Unsure of the blonde-ness and fashionability of it, however.

Otherwise, I'd probably try to get myself over to Scandinavia as soon as possible - you'll have a much larger pool of young, white, slim, blonde, fashionable women to choose from, they all speak fluent English, and you'll have the added advantage of being exotic, unless you have a specific reason why you can go anywhere in the U.S. but can't go abroad...!

Chase

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Yes Chase, blondes are my thing and unfortunately I am stuck in the USA. Brunettes and redheads are also fine by me, just any kind of girl that is white and attractive. I don't care for blonde and fashionable, just blonde and good looking would be alright but really white and good looking is ideal to me.

Anyways I want to kinda steer clear of college towns, not sure what your experience is but from what I have heard, the athletes and fraternity guys there have a monopoly on almost all of the hot girls. Then again, that was with my experiences with college towns south of the Mason-Dixon and not north of it so maybe the Big 10 schools are more relaxed about Greek Life to where a handsome and quality guy could go to a college town there to get laid. I know in my days at an ACC school, the Greek Life ran everything to where the hottest girls were practically reserved for athletes and guys in more well liked fraternities.

 

[Franco]

Fuji,

Anyways I want to kinda steer clear of college towns, not sure what your experience is but from what I have heard, the athletes and fraternity guys there have a monopoly on almost all of the hot girls. Then again, that was with my experiences with college towns south of the Mason-Dixon and not north of it so maybe the Big 10 schools are more relaxed about Greek Life to where a handsome and quality guy could go to a college town there to get laid. I know in my days at an ACC school, the Greek Life ran everything to where the hottest girls were practically reserved for athletes and guys in more well liked fraternities.

None of this really applies in big cities (regardless of whether there's 1, or 2, or 3 colleges nearby). There's tons of guys there who've been out of college for years still getting frequently laid. If you go to a very small college town, then yeah, it's possible the only good-looking men available are in fraternities or are athletes in that town. But it sounds like you need a big city where people don't really know each other, and you being in a fraternity doesn't mean jack squat as long as you handle your fundamentals and cold approach.

- Franco