How to move smoothly after number?

[Man-O]

I've been wondering what're the smoothest options when it comes to moving on after having taken a number?

Say in a bar, street or mall etc.. You get her number when your conversation peaks (within 10 mins). Then you talk a little more after number-taking before moving to another venue/girl/friend etc. but what if:

• She wants to tag along but doesn't want to come to your place or want any sex.
• You want to get another number from a girl in view of the first girl.
• She wants you to stay but from the conversation you know it won't turn out productive.

I have this annoying feeling whenever I get numbers in bars (n-game) that the girls loose attraction to me because my way of leaving them isn't smooth enough. I usually tell them that I want to see how the party goes on another club/bar.

I'd like to hear how other people handle such scenarios.

thanks in advance.

 

[Orelfius]

My own solution to this:

I don't ask for numbers…
I ask for a date (with the WHEN, WHERE and WHAT already on the table), THEN I ask for the phone number (which make sense since it could be required to make sure we can make it or call for any unexpected changes).

If you ask for a phone number, then go to talk with other girls and ask for phone numbers, it's weird, creepy.
But if you had agreed to meet here for the jazz festival this week-end, it doesn't feel creepy if you ask another girl for going to hiking with you.

It strange, but that's how it works. One seem desperate, the other screen success and options. i guess it's because it's specific. Even if the first girl shows up angry, it's so easy to say "Oh I was talking with Sally about my trip in Kayak last year and since she seem very interested, I proposed an kayak 101 course next week-end for her." socially sound stuff. It seem just nice and gallant and generous, hard to be against that for the first woman however how much she's angry, she got no leverage to act upon her anger. Her only option is to bring everything she's got to be more interesting and seductive (so much less chance that she flake the date which is her chance to shine).

 

[Man-O]

Just to clarify. I never ask for only number. I tell them I wanna meet them again but usually I'm not specific and I don't think you can be specific everytime as a lot of stuff happens in one's life but definetly one way to do it.

More plz!
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[Orelfius]

I understand, but it's the specific that get you out of hot water if the first girl find out you also ask another one.