- Oct 23, 2013
I find it hard to see women as cute, sweet, sexual creatures when I'm failing to approach or lack of results. I get really mad at myself for not approaching and sometimes I feel like if women play hard to get, act aloof, or act chaste what's the point of trying to talk to a women and try to make her life better. I also get angry at the fact that I work so hard to improve myself and I never get approach by girls, but a girl could not do anything and get approach by dozens of guys. I try so hard to be what women want and my work isn't paying off, I'm jealous at women for having easy dating lives, they get to be picky while I am a little needy and I have to beat myself up not to chase. I don't think women have hearts, I think they don't give a shit about men, they don't constantly try to improve themselves to be what men want. They don't care about me so why I care for them? They lose attraction so fast it seems unreal to me. I know women are not like this (only a few are really evil) but my brain hasn't experience this. Sure I know women are not heartless, but I've never experience them being lovely and sexual. I know being bitter isn't good for seduction, but how can I not be bitter even if I'm failing to approach, getting rejected, lack of results? In other words, how to not be bitter?