How to open her up sexually or how to make her give me blowjob

[empath]

Ok there is this girl I am seeing fairly conservative and young.

shy about her sexuality

now I want her to give me blowjob but its hard to get her beyond basic sex.

to which she is quite passionate.

Like she won’t have sex when lights are on etc.

feels shy about her body.

changes clothes when I am not watching etc

don’t talk much about sex

Just normal sex.

I want her to give me blowjobs I ask her but she says no.

Sort of you know mild disgust at the thought of putting private part in her mouth way.

Or say I finger her then she won’t suck my fingers.

not much dirty talking

 

[James D]

Classic inexperienced women.

I had a similar one some time back as fwb.

She'd come to me on Sundays after church (would not entertain the idea of skipping church)

She wouldn't let me turn her in doggy cuz I'd see her ass.

And wouldn't give blowjobs as well.

I kept railing her hard every time she came over, and pushing things gradually.

After more than a month of having sex, she was doing it all: blowjobs, anal, eating the cum from her anus, etc

Solution is to keep having sex with her and increase the intensity progressively.

Maybe just have her put it in her mouth for a bit next time. Tell her just for a couple seconds.

You're gonna have to be persistent about it so watch out for not being too pushy and overwhelming her.

 

[Skills]

he being shy and conservative is most young women...

light on, the setting should be a seductive one with lightning not to bright

about "asking to give you a blow job" horrible... you don't do it like that...

and now she said no put you in negative compliance...