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How to prep your mind for daygame

Skid

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hey guys ,

Figured I'd share a trick that has helped me do day game pretty much every time I've headed out even when I really did not feel like it at all. There is a lot of talk in pickup about changing your state and gathering social momentum - all of which definitely helps whether its making small talk with the guy that's serving you coffee or making a fun comment to some random person. Something that can really stop you from when you head out is getting past the first approach of the day since you have no social momentum here's what you do : find your environment amusing find the people around you amusing and find ways to open them as you walk past. For example today I was on the train and there was a group of girls getting on our carriage as the first girl walks down the steps she drops her bag and it hits the ground with this massive CLUNK. The girl immediately says "OMG , I can't believe I did that im so sorry everyone" Then as the second girl walks past she does the biggest eye roll I've ever seen. And I think to myself with quite a grin to myself lols she is quite sick of the other girl being clumsy. Why is this good? Its self amusing with you making no effort and on top of that I am relating to the girls situation because I have a little bro who does that shit all the time. Also it reminds you that everyone else is human too and well everyone fucks up even cute girls and successful men so even if your thinking to yourself fuck man I really don't feel like getting blown out today you've already seen other people be human too and that's ok. And you don't need to use events that are that extreme : if I see a women holding her child's hand and then he lets go and starts walking off I think to myself sorry babe he's sick of you moving out gonna hang in the toy store forever , FREEDOM! Constantly come up with ways that you can naturally open people in general like this and you'll start opening girls without even coming up with an opener.

Peace Skid
 

PrettyDecent

Tribal Elder
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Agreed, being playful and self-amusing is also a favorite of mine if I'm trying to rack up some social momentum. I tend to also use a lot of self-deprecation.

Solid stuff here, Skid!

~Nick
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers
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