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Qielli

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Hey guys,

There's an attractive girl in my wider social circle that I've known for about half a year, though we haven't been seeing each other often at all and never really interacted much. I always felt that she likes me however.
Yesterday I had an opportunity to talk to her more for an hour or two. She was asking me a lot of questions, we were touching a bit and she seemed overall attracted.
We were not alone and the circumstances were not such that we could take things further, but I proposed we should hang out sometime next week as this week's really busy for me. She said yes to meeting up, but that she doesn't have time before the end of May due to exams.
I ended up taking her number (rejected Facebook) and told her that that's fine and that we'll arrange something down the road.

Is it a good idea to just wait for that month now and then contact her, trying to arrange something?
Obviously she will have some time before that, I doubt she studies 24/7, but I don't want to too pushy/chasing.
 

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Qielli said:
I ended up taking her number (rejected Facebook) and told her that that's fine and that we'll arrange something down the road.

I recommend always just going for peoples numbers and avoiding getting their facebook because peoples facebooks have person stuff etc and your just meeting the person its kinda invading privacy

Plus if you do get connected you will eventually add each other on facebook
(adding them on facebook is just making another connection which is good if you want to get her as your girlfriend but if you just picking up most girls will want less attachment)

not sure if im explaining myself well here but hopefully you get the point im trying to put across (its just unnecessary and probably wont do any good but may do some harm)

Is it a good idea to just wait for that month now and then contact her, trying to arrange something?
Obviously she will have some time before that, I doubt she studies 24/7, but I don't want to too pushy/chasing.

Considering its getting around exam time i recommend waiting until afterwards cause if she is studying a receives messages from you when stressed out she is likely to associate the stress with you.

You already received positive signs of attraction just stay cool and after exam period try organize something.
(i dont think you should be worried about attraction expiring in that month period if you had signs of her liking from 5 months ago or something like that)
but if you message in that 1 month period her view of you may change and her towards you may change


anyways im not sure how accurate this shizz is so probably wait for more experienced members to have a whirl im just writing what i would do
 
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