how to rape this girl I like

[MisterX]

HA!! I bet you clicked because of the title.

Okay so recently with a lot of things happening in the media about false rape accusations and stuff It got me thinking. I've been with girls that like a rough guy to take her no matter the fact that she says "no" "stop", etc.

And even stories when a girl told the guy "no, stop" and the guy stopped and sex never happened. Then the next day they met and the asked "why didn't se have sex last night?" and the guy told her that she said "no", the girl then said "well I didn't mean it, I just am turned on by a dominant guy just taking me ".


So how do you make sure you're not raping her but still end up having sex, if she says "no" or "stop" ?

Well if she tells you no or to stop take a step back. And tell her that you can't control yourself but if she really want you to stop she just say the safe-word "red" (or whatever safe-word you want to use). Then you slowly turn it up again with kissing and escalating and this time if she really wants you to stop she would say "red". If she is turned on by saying no and struggling she'll say "no", but you'll know that she doesn't mean it and want you to keep going.


I don't recommend doing with with every girl you go to bed with cause it might kill the mood by talking, but do it with a girl that says "no" "stop".


I'm honestly tired of all the media crying about women being raped when no such thing happened and it is later shown that there was no rape, rather a girl regretting sleeping with some guy and she just screams rape to save face.



- X

 

[ILoveElla]

HA!! I bet you clicked because of the title.

Okay so recently with a lot of things happening in the media about false rape accusations and stuff It got me thinking. I've been with girls that like a rough guy to take her no matter the fact that she says "no" "stop", etc.

And even stories when a girl told the guy "no, stop" and the guy stopped and sex never happened. Then the next day they met and the asked "why didn't se have sex last night?" and the guy told her that she said "no", the girl then said "well I didn't mean it, I just am turned on by a dominant guy just taking me ".


So how do you make sure you're not raping her but still end up having sex, if she says "no" or "stop" ?

Well if she tells you no or to stop take a step back. And tell her that you can't control yourself but if she really want you to stop she just say the safe-word "red" (or whatever safe-word you want to use). Then you slowly turn it up again with kissing and escalating and this time if she really wants you to stop she would say "red". If she is turned on by saying no and struggling she'll say "no", but you'll know that she doesn't mean it and want you to keep going.


I don't recommend doing with with every girl you go to bed with cause it might kill the mood by talking, but do it with a girl that says "no" "stop".


I'm honestly tired of all the media crying about women being raped when no such thing happened and it is later shown that there was no rape, rather a girl regretting sleeping with some guy and she just screams rape to save face.



- X

No no no. Trying to get a girl to agree a safe word is more like something you'd do after you've already had sex several times together. Otherwise, you'll just make her think you're some weirdo who's into S&M. When normal people say 'no', they mean 'no'. I think you're watching too much 'Fatal attraction' where they try to make it seem like women like to be raped.

 

[MisterX]

No no no. Trying to get a girl to agree a safe word is more like something you'd do after you've already had sex several times together. Otherwise, you'll just make her think you're some weirdo who's into S&M. When normal people say 'no', they mean 'no'. I think you're watching too much 'Fatal attraction' where they try to make it seem like women like to be raped.

I can see that you haven't had much or any experience with women, so believe what you want. What a woman says with her words is more often than not false. If she really means no, she would get up and leave. She won't stay in your bed half of fully naked and kiss you.

Good luck and hope you do get some real experience with a girl.


- X

 

[Anonymous]

It is a rather sensitive topic, and even if there is no true basis, you can get into trouble because there is this culture of rape we are living, more prominent that ever, in my opinion.

If you get a girl sufficiently turned on, and you go as fast as she can handle, then it's rare to have resistance. If a girl was on the fence with you, but you sort of pushed past her will and she's depleted, it is possible to have her get buyer's remorse after you've slept with her. Even in that moment where she surrendered, it may not be because she wanted it entirely, but because she exhausted her mental fortitude and gave in out of exhaustion. In those cases, a lot of women will feel dirty or used afterwards because they weren't 100% into it.

That's why I'm really careful about these things. I make sure she wants it. If she tells me no, or gives me strong resistance a few times, then I stop. I'll address it verbally because I want to make sure this is something she wants. I don't want her to ever think that I'm forcing her. But that's just me. I like to play it safe in these possible "rape" situations.

 

[Franco]

MisterX,

At this point, I think it's pretty safe to say that all women have rape fantasies. It's not a stretch at all to believe, but the fantasies they have are always with guys they know would NEVER actually rape them (in the harmful, mind-fucking way). The problem is, it's almost impossible for a guy to know whether or not a girl wants to get the feeling of being "raped" by you in the "I want an extremely dominant sexual man" way or if she's legitimately scared of you and is just going along with it to not upset you (and make worse things happen to her). Then there are the girls who are just plain crazy and make you THINK you're not raping her, but then you suddenly get a call from the police about a "rape" report and you're shitting bricks.

With this being said, I'll quote a piece that I said earlier about rape:

The only real advice I can give here is that you absolutely play it safe if it's your FIRST time having sex with her. I know it might be more of a fantasy for a girl to get raped by a guy she doesn't know and never see him again, but that's totally not worth the risk that is obviously attached to it if you guess wrong. Instead, you can definitely engage in rape fantasies the next time you see her (if you choose to see her again) because she's already had sex with you and invited you over again -- obviously she knows you're not a rapist! At the same time, you also have ammunition as defense by saying, "well we hooked up awhile ago and then she invited me over again, so how can that be rape?"

Anyway, I don't doubt that every girl probably has rape fantasies, but I just feel it's safest to not engage in them until you've already had sex with the girl before and it's at least the second time you're seeing her on a separate occasion.

- Franco