Hello everyone,
One of the most important concepts emphasized here in Girlscahse is the Move faster. Although that when we are new or inexperienced to the social arts this is a concept that makes us slightly uncomfortable and we can try to avoid it as much as we can ( at least this is my case), after some "informational" dates by now, I quickly get its practicality and why it's so important, besides the closing of escalation windows, the expiration of attraction and auto-rejection, life can interfere and it's, never sure that we will able to see the girl again. It's also advised to stop and cut contact with a girl after some time, in the article "Don't Chase them replace them" Chase advocate for beginners to do give up on a girl after 2 months if nothing we don't become lovers.
But I have a litle question :
1.Is there some solution to still be efficient when we can't really move fast? Or move a little bit slower?
2.Can the two-month and 5 dates rule be expended a little bit?
So even if I am trying to follow the rule and stop contacting girls after 2 Months,5 dates and throw the ball in their court after 3-5 dates proposals, I feel that I am wasting some girls that I could have got if I just persisted a little more. Maybe it's still due to my big lack of abundance mentality, but I want to know if the current logistical hell of the society I live in should make me do some tweaks about the speed of the process and give more chance to the women I meet and date. So let see some of the specificities of my region: I live in North Africa
Pulling and getting intimate : most people don't leave the family house until marriage and many even after marriage since the extended family model is still present, So the let's hang out at my place, and the Netflix and Chill are not doable most of the time.
Scheduling dates: It makes it very difficult to follow the Rules. With a lot of persistence It takes me 1 or two weeks to get the first date, most people either students or workers have a 9-5 time frame, public transportation becomes very limited starting from late afternoon and most girls ( as I said living in family home ) are not that much allowed to be out a night.
Girls Identity: most girls in my country have a very flaky and have a pricey attitude so texting process can be long and fastidious. Second, with a very high Slut shaming society, girls are cautious.
So the first solution I have would be to move as fast as I can in the best way possible. But what about the moment of giving up on a girl, can it be expended or not? Are there good ways to game girls in a long way and be efficient?
Thank you
One of the most important concepts emphasized here in Girlscahse is the Move faster. Although that when we are new or inexperienced to the social arts this is a concept that makes us slightly uncomfortable and we can try to avoid it as much as we can ( at least this is my case), after some "informational" dates by now, I quickly get its practicality and why it's so important, besides the closing of escalation windows, the expiration of attraction and auto-rejection, life can interfere and it's, never sure that we will able to see the girl again. It's also advised to stop and cut contact with a girl after some time, in the article "Don't Chase them replace them" Chase advocate for beginners to do give up on a girl after 2 months if nothing we don't become lovers.
But I have a litle question :
1.Is there some solution to still be efficient when we can't really move fast? Or move a little bit slower?
2.Can the two-month and 5 dates rule be expended a little bit?
So even if I am trying to follow the rule and stop contacting girls after 2 Months,5 dates and throw the ball in their court after 3-5 dates proposals, I feel that I am wasting some girls that I could have got if I just persisted a little more. Maybe it's still due to my big lack of abundance mentality, but I want to know if the current logistical hell of the society I live in should make me do some tweaks about the speed of the process and give more chance to the women I meet and date. So let see some of the specificities of my region: I live in North Africa
Pulling and getting intimate : most people don't leave the family house until marriage and many even after marriage since the extended family model is still present, So the let's hang out at my place, and the Netflix and Chill are not doable most of the time.
Scheduling dates: It makes it very difficult to follow the Rules. With a lot of persistence It takes me 1 or two weeks to get the first date, most people either students or workers have a 9-5 time frame, public transportation becomes very limited starting from late afternoon and most girls ( as I said living in family home ) are not that much allowed to be out a night.
Girls Identity: most girls in my country have a very flaky and have a pricey attitude so texting process can be long and fastidious. Second, with a very high Slut shaming society, girls are cautious.
So the first solution I have would be to move as fast as I can in the best way possible. But what about the moment of giving up on a girl, can it be expended or not? Are there good ways to game girls in a long way and be efficient?
Thank you
