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How to respond to a "no chemistry, dont want to see you anymore" text?

perpetualsun

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Hey everyone!

Recently been going out with a girl, first few dates went well. Then, yesterday I was able to go to her place started to kiss her, but she didn't want to go further so I stopped and left immediately. Today I texted again for another date, well, lo and behold I get the text along the lines of, "hey, sorry but i dont think there is chemistry between us, i sort of thought if we kept going out something would spark, hope you find the true one, etc etc".

I know at this point normally I should just not respond and just move on for other girls. But, I was hoping to respond back (since she knows some of my friends) to just show its not a big deal to me. I was planning on responding, "Thanks for being honest, wish you the best too". Is there some response I can put here that would convey that? thanks!
 
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Big Daddy

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Dude, it really depends on how you act around people. I generally act as if things really don't matter to me, so personally a "no worries; (something light-hearted to show you're not mad or something - a joke of you guys, or anything that doesn't make the text looks dry)" then GFOTW.
 

Lucky

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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No offence but with the kissing part you should have stopped (which you did) and then continued as if nothing happened and keep on talking and then after a couple of minute tried for re escalation later as Chase said in one of his articles "always persist" I know it's hard but you just have to do it
 

Lucky

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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And for the text up if it were up to me I'd cut contact and move on but the people might have the info that might help so keep watch on the board
 
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