Calls & Texts How to Set-Up the Bonding Phone Call ?

[Witcher]

Hye everyone

I recently started to implement text/call splitting as advised by @Chase , especially the Bonding Phone Call as a strategy with girls who are losing attraction or dodging date invites via text.

1. Move to call/text switching: if you notice her cooling off to your messages and/or you get that feeling you’ve let her avoid a date with you too long and you’re about to slip into ‘irrelevant guy who always texts to see if she’s finally ready to come meet him’ land, it might be time to make phone calls instead. As a reminder, what calling does is let you rebuild emotions you cannot build via text. Text is a poor medium for building and communicating emotion; calling is a much richer one. If you’re losing her via text, you may still be able to bring her back via calls. More on that here:

And It works ^^ It got me even on a date two hours after the call with a girl who was evading my request for 2-3 weeks after sending her on auto-rejection.

However, my main issue is what's the best default way to introduce the call. Ask the girl if you can call her. Call her directly out of the blue?

My method, for now, is to first ask the girl to help me or advise on something when she agrees I propose to discuss this more in detail in a call which I then transition to a bonding call. The problem with this method is that sometimes I don't find something she can help me with, or I don't find a way to transition to the bonding phone call.

I would love to see what other method you may have to get the girl on the phone.

Thanks

 

[Jan]

Two important things when it comes to calling a girl according to my experience:

1. Only call her during quiet hours (usually evening time, when she is most likely chilling or getting ready for bed, so between 9 and 10pm). Too late is also not good, as it immediately raises a question "Why is this weirdo calling me so late?". And she won't pick up. Exception is made on Friday and Saturday evening when you can call her later, but also not too late.
2. The highest chance for her to pick up her phone is if she just replied to your text message. So let's say you text her at 9.30 Thursday, she replies, you text her again, she replies and then you call her. Also, have a good reason to call her. The reason should come from the context of the texting conversation. "Hey, I thought it's gonna take too much time to text so I better call her." If it really makes sense to call her, most likely she will say something like: "Sure, makes sense." And you can take it from there.