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How to sexualise and lead on date ?

Spyce D

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I and a girl agreed to meet up tomorrow.

And I also have another meet planned for next week with another .

Now . I have went on 6 dates with 3 girls previously and everytime I had this issue of not being able to lead sexually and relying on the girl .

I am getting better at leading now by a bit but still lacking .

I just want to change it now .

So , how do I smoothly sexualise our convo ?

Note : I am also doing a gaming session before the date for obvious reasons .
 

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Chase wrote a very detailled step by step guide not long ago. Have you read it?
 

James D

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There's an article Chase wrote called "Sexual Escalation Script".

It has everything you need.

"How To Turn A Girl On" is another great read too.
 

Spyce D

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There's an article Chase wrote called "Sexual Escalation Script".

It has everything you need.

"How To Turn A Girl On" is another great read too.
Thanks for the advice .
 

Spyce D

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Shit ! After reading , I just realised I do a lot of these things except hitting the escalation windows and not sitting side to side .

Need to do it then ..
 
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Don't get too complicated. Use light verbal tactics to establish sexual frames and escalate the vibe. Such as: Strawberry Fields... Cold (sexual) readings, and question play or asking each other questions ranging from platonic and stimulating to introducing sexual topics.

And it scales equally physically from social and playful physical contact (thumb war, measuring their hand with yours, holding your hand while walking. Touch his wrist to check a bracelet.... Check his tattoo, remove a dirt from his face or eyelash.... Etc). And then get her more and more accustomed to your touch and feel more comfortable when you touch more intimate places.
 
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