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How to Show Intent without giving your power away?

Mogga

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Spilling all your beans at once is obviously not good, But sometimes I feel like I'm beating around the Bush which Is not good either especially when I open indirectly, any tips?

Thanks.
 

foggy

Modern Human
Modern Human
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if you show her interest, you can take some power back by following up with disinterest. for example:

fog: you are enchanting. but you are so young :/
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

Fuck This

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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1) don't apologize for being sexual in your interest. Mindset is, "Of course I'm interested in you sexually. I wouldn't waste my time if I wasn't. If you don't feel that way, I'll easily find another who is." Mindset . Not Expressed but MINDSET. Your actions will reflect that.
2) initiate kino in a non sexual way before accidentally venturing into more suggestive territory (tons of articles out there)
3) apply eye contact when out of touch range
4) Reward her sexual intent with attention.
5) welcome her expressing degrees of physical desire. Work up slowly....
6) if she pulls back then you pull back as if you meant to all along. Let your attention wander to something else around. She might be trying to make you chase and will try to reel you back in. reward that with your intention.

You can do all this without a word or inappropriate touch in public. You are ramping up the sexual tension.
 
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