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Hello,
I am in kind of an unusual situation. I am a fairly attractive guy, somewhere between 7-9 facially, and I'm 6'4 tall. Slightly better than average build because I play football, but I don't have a six pack. I am fairly confident and am getting better at not being awkward. Right now I'm a senior in high school,(18 yrs old). My problem is that I was homeschooled up until this year, I was also formerly a fundamentalist Christian and believed that sex, dating, all the above, basically everything except courtship and marriage, were evil. Because I was homeschooled I never dated, and never figured out how to interact with girls, Since I was a christian I was constantly pushing all "Lustful thoughts" from my mind.
I've been going to public school for about 2 months now, and I've become fairly popular because I'm friends with the rest of the varsity football team. I get a ton of interest from girls every day, I notice many of them checking me out, and have random cute girls at school introduce themselves to me every day or 2 at school. But I am unable to return interest, and I think that I seem way to aloof, I'm afraid to ask girls out even though I'm confident that they would say yes. When girls show interest, I usually try and act disinterested and aloof, even when I'm not, ( About a year ago I found Chateau Heartiste and started trying to act more aloof and confident, but I suspect that the aloofness I now have is not helping me at all.)
Quite a few girls are interested in me, but I don't know how to show interest in them. I'm also afraid because I'm still a virgin(Never even kissed a girl because of my former beliefs). I also have a bunch of mental blocks left over that make me afraid to try and have sex, or even get a girlfriend. To top it all off, my parents are fundamentalist Christians and say that I'll have to move out if they find out I've been having sex. I really need help to remove all the old mental baggage, and figure out how to bang the girls that are interested in me. For starters, there is this one girl,(my friends say she is a 9, but I don't find her that hot,). For a few weeks her friends were telling me that she was interested in me, and me being me, I kinda ignored it. But she's flirted with me some, and I want to pursue a relationship with her. But I don't know how to show interest.
I am in kind of an unusual situation. I am a fairly attractive guy, somewhere between 7-9 facially, and I'm 6'4 tall. Slightly better than average build because I play football, but I don't have a six pack. I am fairly confident and am getting better at not being awkward. Right now I'm a senior in high school,(18 yrs old). My problem is that I was homeschooled up until this year, I was also formerly a fundamentalist Christian and believed that sex, dating, all the above, basically everything except courtship and marriage, were evil. Because I was homeschooled I never dated, and never figured out how to interact with girls, Since I was a christian I was constantly pushing all "Lustful thoughts" from my mind.
I've been going to public school for about 2 months now, and I've become fairly popular because I'm friends with the rest of the varsity football team. I get a ton of interest from girls every day, I notice many of them checking me out, and have random cute girls at school introduce themselves to me every day or 2 at school. But I am unable to return interest, and I think that I seem way to aloof, I'm afraid to ask girls out even though I'm confident that they would say yes. When girls show interest, I usually try and act disinterested and aloof, even when I'm not, ( About a year ago I found Chateau Heartiste and started trying to act more aloof and confident, but I suspect that the aloofness I now have is not helping me at all.)
Quite a few girls are interested in me, but I don't know how to show interest in them. I'm also afraid because I'm still a virgin(Never even kissed a girl because of my former beliefs). I also have a bunch of mental blocks left over that make me afraid to try and have sex, or even get a girlfriend. To top it all off, my parents are fundamentalist Christians and say that I'll have to move out if they find out I've been having sex. I really need help to remove all the old mental baggage, and figure out how to bang the girls that are interested in me. For starters, there is this one girl,(my friends say she is a 9, but I don't find her that hot,). For a few weeks her friends were telling me that she was interested in me, and me being me, I kinda ignored it. But she's flirted with me some, and I want to pursue a relationship with her. But I don't know how to show interest.
