How to snatcher her away from her complicated relationship

[StoicMind]

So there is this girl that I went to school with that I've been talking to her on the phone heavy for the last four days and she admitted that she likes me/ attracted to me just based off our phone conversations, but she has a boyfriend that she's not really with (Their status is complicated). And her boyfriend is like her first love or whatever, he's all she knows, so she's very hesitant to let that relationship go and come to me like she wants. We are going to the same college and I know when we actually see each other attraction is going to be upped like 500% but I want her to get over her ex soon, what should I do.

 

[Richard]

Stoic,

This is really nostalgic for me because a situation exactly like this is how I got with my first girlfriend (before I even started reading GC) and it was actually simple.

When a relationship is toxic and you show her that you're the better man then she'll run to you - with my first girlfriend I talked to her and after learning of the problems in her then-current relationship I showed her that I was different. Her boyfriend was controlling, I was not. Her boyfriend was so many things that I was not and she fell for me pretty hard.

Anyway, the point is that you have to show her what kind of a man you are - namely, a better, more dominant man than her current boyfriend.

-Richard