How to stop texting that girl - date?

[Xerud]

Ok the thing is she seems interested in me, but the thing is she keeps contacting me, we don't text much, but I already hate that, because yes at the start I asked her few questions, then she asked me what I helped with. So I replied and so on and she also told me that she's have driver licence and to hold my fists together so she'll make it. I said yes blah blah I'm holding fists and some reply about previous message. Then after 8 hours!!! she replied yay I've made it waaa I've made it

Then after 3 hours I replied to her message Congraats you see I've holded fists!

So the thing is I'm almost sure she'll reply to my message in morning.

How can I just stop texting? Should I just say to her. I don't have time right now, but talk to you on Friday?

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

Just set up a date time in the next week max.

You: I am really busy now but I would like to see you. Let's get together. When are you available?
Her: I can go blah blah blah.
You: Great I will check with you before then to make sure you can make it. I will see you then.

This should set the frame that you are busy but are not blowing her off. Only confirm the date the day before.

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[Xerud]

She already agreed to go on date with me on Friday. But then I asked her one question damn I just did and she was really happy like wow you remembered that she said. But now she keeps like texting and so on and forward. But I just don't want to stop texting when she replies, I already reply to her text like 3 hours late and sometimes she does as well.

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

I think you already established a pattern. To change now will look off to her. You can probably break the pattern during the date. During the date you need to show your dominance. Do you best to bed her. In the mean time just be slow to respond. At least double her response time. This will help to set her chasing you.

 

[Xerud]

Ok so the thing is yesterday she write me a message, which is not question should I just not reply or what? .

She replied because she made licence : Thaank you yes one hundread percent it helped (I said in previous message congrats because she made drive licence and that helped because I was holding fists)

What would you do?

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

No reply. One is not needed. You are going to have to work on your need to reply to text. You have a fear that if you don't reply she will stop liking you. It is not going to happen. If she expected a reply she will text you again asking whats up. You replay after some time. "I've been busy. I will see you on Friday." Keep setting this frame that you are a busy important man. The "I will see you on Friday" lets her know everything is ok and you don't won't to talk until then.

Your job is to be the man in the relationship. Women love to talk with their "FRIENDS". Your not her friend, you are her lover. When you text with her you are friend zoning yourself. Man up and quit texting.

Mind set - with every woman you are attracted to, you are her LOVER. Treat her as a lover from the very beginning. Immediately establish this frame in your mind and it will get past along to her through your actions.

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[Xerud]

Ok I didn't replied from yesterday. So the thing is tomorrow I'll just text her or what? Like saying : Cool I've been busy with the work talk to you on friday.

That would be ok?

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

Nope. Don't text her until she text you again. Then you can send her that text but you have to wait as long or longer than between her last text. I know it is hard to do but you need her to chase you.

 

[Xerud]

Ah right.. on one text I didn't reply like for almost whole day haha, oops

But what do to if she doesn't reply same day, but she does reply in morning for example.

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

Dude, relax. Focus you energy elsewhere. I want you to not think about her for the rest of the day. Go do the other things you need to do. Also I want you to get a James Bond movie. Watch how James moves. How he interacts with other people. How even when he is in a fight he is in control. Everything is smooth and in control. He is laid back but dominate. Then I want you to practice being in control and laid back. I don't want you to act like James but to mentally take on the persona. Here is a link to some scenes. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0t1_usmB30s

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[Sophisticated Gent]

Your date is tomorrow. Some time this afternoon or evening send her a confirmation email regarding the date. "Just checking that we are still on for tomorrow."

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