How to tell if this christian girl is a party-girl?

[perpetualsun]

Recently I met a 28 year old Asian Christian girl from Korea (came to the US at age 18). The only thing about her is that she drinks and that when she first met me, she was rather bold with touch (touching my arm each time I said something funny).

I asked her about whether she liked to party/drink and she claimed that she only really drinks at bars/clubs when her friends invite her out. However, she has a whole bottle of jack by her nightstand. She goes to church every week, which might seem like a contradiction.

Chase wrote an article saying how he doesn’t enter into relationships with girls that party or drink. It seems that this girl is an opportunistic one. If her friends want to go drink, she would tag along.

My question is, does this girl count as a party girl, one I want to avoid? If she is, is there any way to talk to her about it? I know changing people is hard but was wondering if anyone had any ideas.

 

[Fuck This]

What you are talking about is screening.

What is your goal here? a one time lay, a fuck buddy, a friend with benefits, a girlfriend, or wife material?

Each of these levels you allow that person a little more access to you. Some will only qualify to go to a certain level. Don't get caught up trying to determine if she is Wife material until you decide you like the way she has sex with you. Then if you can stand to be around her when you are not having sex, you might give her more access to you, like knowing where you live or being seen in public with you.

After a roll in the hay she may drop her guard, and you will see more of her personality. Personally a girl with a bottle of whiskey on the bedstand might be fun to bang, but I don't want to get drunk dialed by her when she is feeling sad and lonely. There is a BD blog that talks about relationship types and levels that explains it better.

The Bottle is a flag, but not a deal breaker to a certain level. I get the feeling that she might be a good experience (even though it may turn out badly) and let her disqualify herself through actions. Just don't invest yourself too much until you know more about her.