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Went out for nightgame, did some sets with a wing, nothing crazy or new to write overall, except a new approach method that I did today.
My wing and I were sitting down at a booth, 3 girls next to us.
Suddenly, some weird dude goes up to these girls dancing animatedly, trying to compare heights and everything, and these girls aren’t having it.
At first, I thought that this guy may know the girls and have a good friendship with them, to be able to do something as wild as dancing in their face all crazy unprompted.
However, that wasn’t the case, the guy walked off, and two of the girls ran away. The one girl who was about to leave, I caught her attention and said “do you know that guy?” To which she responded no. Then I commented on his very weird and odd behavior, which she seemed to agree with.
Genuinely feeling bad for them, I told them if that dude comes back, to say those three girls were with us, cuz honestly I hate when guys creep out girls in that manner, imo it was close to ruining their whole night.
Long story short, my wing and I ended up chilling with those girls a bit, good flirty banter, however, those girls were dead set on going home and sleeping, logistics did not favor us with them.
What I took away from this is saving girls from creepy guys(not bad boys that they “hate”) can create an instant connection and trust.
My question is what are the signs to look out for when a girl is talking to a guy she doesn’t want to be around, vs someone she knows/wants to get to know more.
Me interrupting the former scenario, can be very powerful, but I’ve always been a bit on guard, because if the girl does give a shit about the guy in some way, then I obviously look silly. This question is only for nightgame, maybe can apply to crowded daygame venues, although I think this is more or less rare in daygame.
My wing and I were sitting down at a booth, 3 girls next to us.
Suddenly, some weird dude goes up to these girls dancing animatedly, trying to compare heights and everything, and these girls aren’t having it.
At first, I thought that this guy may know the girls and have a good friendship with them, to be able to do something as wild as dancing in their face all crazy unprompted.
However, that wasn’t the case, the guy walked off, and two of the girls ran away. The one girl who was about to leave, I caught her attention and said “do you know that guy?” To which she responded no. Then I commented on his very weird and odd behavior, which she seemed to agree with.
Genuinely feeling bad for them, I told them if that dude comes back, to say those three girls were with us, cuz honestly I hate when guys creep out girls in that manner, imo it was close to ruining their whole night.
Long story short, my wing and I ended up chilling with those girls a bit, good flirty banter, however, those girls were dead set on going home and sleeping, logistics did not favor us with them.
What I took away from this is saving girls from creepy guys(not bad boys that they “hate”) can create an instant connection and trust.
My question is what are the signs to look out for when a girl is talking to a guy she doesn’t want to be around, vs someone she knows/wants to get to know more.
Me interrupting the former scenario, can be very powerful, but I’ve always been a bit on guard, because if the girl does give a shit about the guy in some way, then I obviously look silly. This question is only for nightgame, maybe can apply to crowded daygame venues, although I think this is more or less rare in daygame.
