How to tell you see other girls?

[Man-O]

Atm. I got two. One, my frist fb, who told me she didn't want to see me ever again (she wanted ltr), in general. Later I meet her in town (she calls my name out) and we talk for 30 secs. Day after she texts me and says she wants to meet again. A month passes and she knows it's pure sex-relationship.

The other one I met though a volunteer bar and they know through how I talked with all the other cute female bartenders that it is in my vibe but how do you actually hint it more than just being a guy who walk out regularly and say you love flirting WITHOUT smearing it in her face. I mean how to tell and showcase it in a cool way without hurting the girls' feelings.

Thx in regard.

 

[fsc]

Try to avoid talking about it and showcasing it.

If the girl has a decent amount of social skills, maturity, and options, she'll see right through you and you'll just appear foolish. If she was interested, she could go into auto-rejection.

Try to "be" the type of guy rather than saying that you are. So keep being flirty, have the "devil may care" attitude and the abundance mentality, be confident, etc. Once you have decent fundamentals, many girls will just assume. You can also casually mention "girl friends" in your conversation, for example: "Oh yeah, I've heard about that guy...a few of my girl friends already mentioned how he was all creepy with them". Also when you do something like that verbally, it may help to break eye contact so that it doesn't appear like you're fishing for reactions. You can also showcase yourself by simply talking to other girls in sight of your main/primary/target girl. Be a little aloof like a butterfly, wander off, talk/flirt with another girl, then come back and act casually like nothing happened. If she asks, just be like "Hmm? I dunno, I just thought she had a cool hairstyle and I felt like letting her know." then focus the conversation back on the girl.

 

[Man-O]

I'm already doing that. I just have the feeling there's a lot more one can do, than telling one likes to flirt and including girl friends in whatever stories one tells + one's vibe.
I think I'm scouring for examples.

 

[mb1]

I've had success indirectly by being very nonjudgmental sexually. After conversation about sex being about babies and gene selection (which includes LOTS of favourable talk about promiscuous women), leading a very fast seduction where the frame is set such that there is barely or no physical last minute resistance, and having her comment that I should teach her ex boyfriends on how to take control and lead, she now sees you as someone who has gone from meet to mate in the same day 100 times. You may have just learned all of her deepest shit and connected emotionally, but you're a player f'sho in this girl's perception and she's so into you and submitted to getting time with you.

So in my opinion, you should focus on just leading her through the best seduction of all time and paint female promiscuity in a positive light so the frame is that it's normal for girls to fuck around and the idea of a relationship hasn't even registered in your head because she hasn't asked you for it. Just pretend we're in a world where relationships don't exist.

If it then comes up from her pursuing commitment or asking if you're seeing anyone else, you are now responding rather than communicating it to her.

Then, you can explain a logical boyfriend disqualification like you are moving eventually.

Ideally you want to disqualify before everything and she will fuck you fast submitting to your frame as lover not committer, and she'll never have reason to bring it up having already accepted it.

So to actually summarize, if you're having to deal with it, you didn't screen for and fuck only girls who go into the first penetration expecting a single night or casual arrangement.

 

[mb1]

P.s. that would apply to new girls in your life.

Judging by your girl #1, it seems that no matter whether you communicate about it direct or indirect, the girl has got to know the deal and be OK with it. Go into it being OK with them walking away when they eventually do start pushing for it again after submitting. Let them walk away but still definitely show completely non needy desire for her still, and she may return a few times until roping down someone less sexy... And then she'll be back after that too.