How to turn conversation sexy and fun, Examples?

[LovelyDesires]

-Spot girl
-Direct open
-Intro name and Handshake
Me - Ask her whats shes doing there
Her- Normally get "waiting for friend" (Shopping Mall Setting)
Me - My only sexual line "Anyways, are u free tonight, would u like to go to my place, we could go watch a movie or something."
Her- Smiles "nope, going out tonight." (Usually)
Me - She begins to close up as i ask another question like "So what do u do to get excitement from your life."
Her- "Nothing much".

Goes downhill from here. Needs sexual humor that really involves her

 

[Nuffsaid]

Hello fellas,
Well if your dialogue is that straight forward, I would work on getting her a little more intrigued before you ask her to go back to your place or whatever the situation may be. When she's says waiting for a friend or waiting on someone I would say something along the lines of "ah that's no fun... How about a little adventure just you and me?" With a smirking kind of look on your face. Soft smile if you will. That's my number one line if a girl seems bored thanks girls chase. Anyways if she says I really can't, or she legitimately has plans, you say "how about this, we can trade. You give me your number and I can promise you a night of fun on on the town sometime" or something along these lines to get her number in a creative and cute/clever way. If she seems to be flaking or states out right, I don't know you that well. You can say "even more reason we can go for coffee someone, get to know each other yeah?" Some sexual humor to use in these situations would be something just to get her thinking about going back to your house or being in your bed or on your couch. Just hint with this, some women are completely turned off by sexual humor if it's too out right. "I've got a really comfortable couch we can crash on for a little while after our adventurous evening works splendidly! Anyways these are a few things that I've done to help my game out a little.

Cheers
Jake

 

[Nuffsaid]

Oh another tip for if she starts to close up is you can get her to sit down with you for a second (until her friend shows up) and get her interested by being a little mysterious. Say something playful like "I know a beautiful girl like you doesn't just sit around all day with nothing going on so tell me, what does ally( use her name not "you") do to get a kick out of life?"


If she's cold to this I'm sure te other guys will have a ton of other advice

Jake

 

[LovelyDesires]

Hello fellas,
When she's says waiting for a friend or waiting on someone I would say something along the lines of "ah that's no fun... How about a little adventure just you and me?" With a smirking kind of look on your face. Soft smile if you will. That's my number one line if a girl seems bored

Woa u said that few lines after opening the girl and that worked? (as in she moves with you)
For me if i were to do that, she'll smile a little, shakes her head and say "no, i gotta wait for my friend".
Normally i would follow up with playful, "come on relax it'll be fun"
She then says "no sry" or be more persistent.

From here on im stuck.
- If i continue persisting she would walk away.
- If i continue conversation, its more or less bad because she gets used to rejecting you already, so when u propose going somewhere else 10 mins later, there would be strong resistance

 

[Nuffsaid]

9/10 she will go right with it. then here's that one girl who will say but I really do have to wait for my friend. Or what you said you would get:/ those women need to be warmed up and get them going with you. One reason they may be going cold so quickly is because they aren't in a setting that they're necessarily expecting to be approached by men. Another possibility is that you may (not totally sure) but you may be trying to converse and set up a long conversation when they aren't in the most social moods. If you can approach and get her number and close in relatively fewer lines, and you are in their head and they're thinking about you after you're gone, with her number in your phone, you'll get the dates afterwards. Here's a dialogue example from two days ago

Me: hey there, I couldn't help but noticing you picked out that green shirt a second ago. It really compliments those beautiful brown eyes my names jake

Her: oh haha thanks jake. I'm Reece. You seem to know a lot about style. Which jacket goes with this top??

Me: well Reece, I don't give of these top secret style tips to just anyone

Her: but im not just anybody.
(She was being real playful so it made things easier)

Me: true true. I'll make you a deal, go out with me sometime and I'll tell you what I think about your little fashion crisis

Her: ooh that's hard to say no to but I'm going out with friends tonight.

Me: in that case, I'll just take your number and we can go from there

Long story short got her number and set up a date. The key is to get her hooked from the first words you say. Compliments always catch them off guard (in a good way) and it lets them know you are attracted to them, and you want to take them out with you. A simple I noticed your cute smile, stunning eyes. Choose your adjectives wisely and watch them be more effective I wouldn't try to follow up the waiting for my friend line with cmon it'll be fun relax. I would lean more towards well the offers on the table reece, it's a shame seeing you left alone here. Walk with me to grab some frozen yogurt or something where you could walk and talk while she stays where she's meeting her friend.

Anyways to sum this up:
1. Greet her with something that she will remember not just hi I'm jake
2. Induce a fun topic that you can be playful with that sets up the number grab or the "date ask?"
3. Close in a relatively quick (but not hurried manor). This keeps you from chasing her. You are now in the drivers seat
4. Don't treat it like a mission. Have fun with it. Rejection is a chance to learn. If you're having fun and relaxed the more relaxed and playful she can be.
5. Leave her thinking about you, don't just say bye, find something that keeps the thought of you in her head while she's doing whatever women do

Hope this answers your question

Jake

 

[Smith]

You're making this more complicated than it has to be. Simple tip : be free, say whatever is amusing to you. A lot of my conversation with girls are just fluff and fun, and deep diving here and there. Get yourself into a "having fun" mood, then the words you say have little significance usually. We mirror each other's emotion. Remember it's a conversation, you're not working to impress her. It should be free flowing, spontaneous and fun for both of you.

 

[LovelyDesires]

Great informative piece.
Still dont get the 9 out of 10 though, for me 1 out of 10 is already good enough. Asian country Singapore here, the "dont talk to strangers" vibe is strong.
Nevertheless, no reason to complain. Gotta hit on more girls tomorrow. Doing a month long, daily pick up routine. Currently day 12. Gonna try some of your stuff tomorrow. Just a side question, where do u live?

Thanks Jake

 

[Richard]

I'd recommend looking through my FRs and LRs, same thing with NJ. My style of game is all about mixing humor and sexuality while still being relatively straightforward.

A general guideline of becoming sexual goes as follows:

Open her --> Light banter --> Deep dive --> Sexual --> Pull back to banter or deep dive something else --> Close --> Exit

You've absolutely got to let a girl build up trust and comfort with you before you become sexual or else you will be seen as creepy, or a pervert (not in the good way either). So, before you even try to turn a conversation sexy and fun you need to work on helping girls become comfortable with you (that's the deep dive and light banter portion of the guideline).

Anyhow, check out some FRs from me and NJ and you'll see what I mean.

-Richard

 

[Nuffsaid]

I live near Atlanta, Georgia in the good ole U.S. Of A. Lol yeah location can have a lot to do with the mentality women are already in. Best of luck and I totaly agree with the other advice. You can find a lot of field reports to help you out!

Jake

 

[Franco]

LovelyDesires,

In case you were wondering, there is a list of all of the elite members' lay/field reports in this topic here.

- Franco

 

[LovelyDesires]

Wow, the FRs and LRs are really detailed. I used to ignore them because they were so beyond my level. Getting laid like im getting a number!
Currently working on just being funny with my "Claiming that shes using a dating app and that she found a hot guy within 100m radius".

Anyways, Richard and Franco, have u guys done pickup in any asian country like maybe China?
Cause i have been watching youtube lately about this guys worst approach still succeeding in America. He was stammering all over and still got the girls number.[1] 5:33 to 8:25. Doesnt seem to work here. Many interactions are like boxing matches, requiring quick response actions like "wait, I just want to talk", "just a few minutes" the moment u compliment her as she uncomfortably turns to walk away. Especially true when shes already walking somewhere when i stop her.

Tough gaming,
Nobel

[1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UK6ajgz0Rac