I'm not much of a talker. With my friends I might joke around and act goofy, but still I don't go into long speeches. I might take my time to explain something, but I still don't beat around the bush. This is the same way I interact with girls. I use facial expressions, touch and sexy smiles to replace this. And then I go for the kiss. But still, I've found out that I still need to turn my conversations into the sexual sphere where she'll begin to harbour thoughts of us together so. Because sometimes if feels incongruent if I go for the kiss without any sort of sexual frames. I believe the options for this are chase frames, sex talk, role playing or sexual framing/innuendo. I'd like to get tips from you guys on how to achieve this.
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Any conversation will be sexual if you use a sexy, suggestive tone of voice.
You could tell a girl you like to exercise. If you say it in a regular voice, it means you like to exercise. But if you say it in a sexy voice then she'll start thinking that there's sexual connotations involved in what you're saying. You're framing the conversation as sexual.
Communication is made up of 7% verbal and 93% non-verbal characteristics. Tone of voice is non-verbal. Women pay a lot more attention to the non-verbals as I'm sure you're aware....theres a lot that goes on under the surface of conversations. you could be talking about mountains, but if your tone of voice and body language are sexual, then the conversation is practically one about sex to the girl. It's all about the undertones.
If you want to actually talk about sex, then yeah go and check out Alek's articles. However just remember that verbal words make up only 7% of communication.
Making observations about sexual topics has been an easy way to transition into sex talk for me. I'll point out that I don't like the culture of slut shaming in our society. You can also easily talk about celebrity crushes. Stuff like that.
You could tell a girl you like to exercise. If you say it in a regular voice, it means you like to exercise. But if you say it in a sexy voice then she'll start thinking that there's sexual connotations involved in what you're saying. You're framing the conversation as sexual.
Communication is made up of 7% verbal and 93% non-verbal characteristics. Tone of voice is non-verbal. Women pay a lot more attention to the non-verbals as I'm sure you're aware....theres a lot that goes on under the surface of conversations. you could be talking about mountains, but if your tone of voice and body language are sexual, then the conversation is practically one about sex to the girl. It's all about the undertones.
If you want to actually talk about sex, then yeah go and check out Alek's articles. However just remember that verbal words make up only 7% of communication.
Making observations about sexual topics has been an easy way to transition into sex talk for me. I'll point out that I don't like the culture of slut shaming in our society. You can also easily talk about celebrity crushes. Stuff like that.