How to use direct compliment

[Sub-Zero]

I can open indirect and situation fine, because I use are you single and it shows my interest enough. I jist want to know how can I compliment a girl without feeling like im going for brownie points or im telling her something she knows?

I feel when I give complements it gives her too much power and I lose my power of she rejects me.

What's a good way of changing how I think and a good way to make me look high status giving a compliment?

 

[ray_zorse]

You just have to go for it. Don't be shy -- instead of "you look hot" or "you look good".. establish strong eye contact and say "you look stunningly beautiful".. and never give an insincere compliment, I have a range I can use going from cute through AMAZINGLY cute through absolutely stunning etc, depending on how hot I think the girl actually is. I often then follow up with "I LOVE your outfit / earrings / whatever" or "your outfit is very well put together too". One approach I've been planning to try is as follows: "When you came past me before I noticed you were wearing an AMAZING scent..so I had to come and say hi..now I see you're really cute too"..

So in regards to your other question..read the article on law of least effort..well we want to stand back and let the women do the work right..and come off quite aloof, bored, etc..so what happens if we do this 24/7.. well we never meet any girls or even get a conversation..so the law of least effort is to exert.the minimum effort to get what we want.

Before the hook u have to give it everything, the time to start being withdrawing and being bored and using compliments / touch as reward is later (actually I have trouble w that part).

cheers, Ray

 

[Richard]

For the record, the "Are you single" line is a direct opener.

Anyhow, when you want to go direct with a compliment it's all about fundamentals, tone of voice, and eye contact. You want to be sure that your body language is not too strong (i.e you don't want your chest, feet, and entire body pointed at her) so open from the side after she has already seen you at least once. There's nothing more creepy for a chick than to look up and suddenly see some guy in her face.

When you compliment her - your voice should be a cross between sincerity and authoritative (between a bouncer and an excited child basically). Actually, a semi-mentor of mine said to directly compliment women with the mindset of a curious child because you don't know she's going to react and that should excite you.

Another small tip - try to use incredibly cute instead of beautiful.

In summation it should look like this:

Lock eyes. Approach from the side. Pre-open (optional) and go direct: "Hey, I saw you walking here and I couldn't help but notice how incredibly cute you are and I wanted to introduce myself. I'm Richard.

and that's how it's done bro

 

[Sub-Zero]

Ok thanks guys, will do.