How tough is it for a guy who graduated college a virgin to become a playboy?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

For reasons both in and mainly out of my control, I left college as a kissless virgin and a lot had to do with my state of mind, dealing with what I look back on as horrible parents that raised me into being the exact opposite of an alpha, being unaware of Greek Life and social politics, and a host of other reasons.

The thing is I have read so much game material but feel like my environment has really held me back in the sense of doing well with women throughout my life. Cold approach PUA game doesn't fly and so much of getting decent looking women relies on social circle game and such.

I wonder how many guys have gone from graduating college as kissless virgins and somehow turned it around.

How tough is it?

 

[Bete Noire]

Re: How tough is it for a guy who graduated college a virgin to become a playboy

You dont want it bad enough. Seriously man fuck your past, noone cares about who you were it's what you are now. Stop reading and go out tonight, talk to at least 3 new people and start developin' your basics whilst applyin' all the basic fundamentals you've learned on GC. Come back tomorrow and tell me how it went.

 

[Marcellus]

Re: How tough is it for a guy who graduated college a virgin to become a playboy

Just adopt whatever belief helps you out in the long run.

"I'd say it would be very easy for a kissless virgin to become a future playboy if he worked hard enough."

That might not be necessarily true but if it's helpful than who cares right?

And if your place is so bad I guess it's perfect that you just finished college, no excuses to move!

-M

 

[Virgin101]

Re: How tough is it for a guy who graduated college a virgin to become a playboy

How tough is it?

What's your alternative?

For reasons both in and mainly out of my control, I left college as a kissless virgin and a lot had to do with my state of mind, dealing with what I look back on as horrible parents that raised me into being the exact opposite of an alpha, being unaware of Greek Life and social politics, and a host of other reasons.

The thing is I have read so much game material but feel like my environment has really held me back in the sense of doing well with women throughout my life. Cold approach PUA game doesn't fly and so much of getting decent looking women relies on social circle game and such.

I wonder how many guys have gone from graduating college as kissless virgins and somehow turned it around.

If you're going to get good, I'd recommend trying to get good fast! Don't take the view that just because you're doing a significant amount more than before, that that's good enough! Remember, a significant amount more than before, might still be next to nothing, in comparison to what other guys do.

Don't feel bad if you've going out 3 nights a weeks for a month & don't feel any better at it. I remember (after a certain amount of experience) when I used to be looking for an opportunity to just convince myself that I had improved! - "if I could just go home tonight feeling that I've at least made progress!" Silly frame of mind to be in. And don't think about game when you're out.

You need to set a ratio, of how much pick-up you read, in comparison to how much actual real effort you put in. If you keep only reading pick-up, it'll end up proving counter-productive. I'd stop reading pick-up entirely for a while, and fill that void with something else healthy. If you keep reading it, you'll become cynical, and you're thoughts will become paralysed.. or something like that!

 

[Raqimus]

Re: How tough is it for a guy who graduated college a virgin to become a playboy

Altair, stop asking and do. Please.

 

[The Emerald Archer]

Re: How tough is it for a guy who graduated college a virgin to become a playboy

For reasons both in and mainly out of my control, I left college as a kissless virgin and a lot had to do with my state of mind, dealing with what I look back on as horrible parents that raised me into being the exact opposite of an alpha, being unaware of Greek Life and social politics, and a host of other reasons.

The thing is I have read so much game material but feel like my environment has really held me back in the sense of doing well with women throughout my life. Cold approach PUA game doesn't fly and so much of getting decent looking women relies on social circle game and such.

 

[Fuck This]

Re: How tough is it for a guy who graduated college a virgin to become a playboy

The only easy day was yesterday. You don't become a playboy overnight.

"10 years later I became an overnight success" is commonly uttered when someones years of hard work finally pays off.

Get socially savvy first. Then create friendships, then create relationships. Then tailor those relationships to what you want them to be.