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Hey guys, just wondering how a "sample" conversation would go with a girl that may have put you in auto-rejection or boyfriend zone. I have had a few girls that put me in this position but after a few months to a year of cutting communication with them, they became "warm" to me again. E.g. A girl that you may have went on a date/dates or have kissed before and you missed escalation windows but you run into her at a party/bar or social event a few months later. I am just wondering how the whole interaction would go, does the concept of deep diving still apply, even though you may know a lot about the girl already from previous dates? Do you try to invite her out on another date quickly into the conversation? How would you manage something like this? It seems like somewhat of a big challenge to overcome.
I'll give my most recent example below:
Met a girl last summer, she was chasing me "super hard". We went out on 3 dates. She actually asked me out on the second date. We madeout on each date but I never pursued sex because I didn't think it was possible at the time for something like that to happen so quick (GirlsChase opened my eyes up BIG TIME!). After, the 3rd date things faded out awkwardly, and we cut communication with each other basically. We would see each other out pretty frequently and she would "STARE" me down but didn't make any effort to converse with me. I tried to converse with her a few times when I saw her out but she would "walk away" and wouldn't engage in anything more than small talk(seems like she wanted me to chase now). Fast forward a year later, and she still stares me down, but she is now flirting with me and touching me when I see her. She is a lot warmer now but she is definitely not as warm as she first was. So, my question how would you handle a situation similar to this, if you wanted to sleep with her? How should the interaction go? I'd assume make little compliance requests and then maybe ask her out on a high note?
I'll give my most recent example below:
Met a girl last summer, she was chasing me "super hard". We went out on 3 dates. She actually asked me out on the second date. We madeout on each date but I never pursued sex because I didn't think it was possible at the time for something like that to happen so quick (GirlsChase opened my eyes up BIG TIME!). After, the 3rd date things faded out awkwardly, and we cut communication with each other basically. We would see each other out pretty frequently and she would "STARE" me down but didn't make any effort to converse with me. I tried to converse with her a few times when I saw her out but she would "walk away" and wouldn't engage in anything more than small talk(seems like she wanted me to chase now). Fast forward a year later, and she still stares me down, but she is now flirting with me and touching me when I see her. She is a lot warmer now but she is definitely not as warm as she first was. So, my question how would you handle a situation similar to this, if you wanted to sleep with her? How should the interaction go? I'd assume make little compliance requests and then maybe ask her out on a high note?
