How would you handle things if a girl inadvertently discovered your Game notes/material?

[Ambiance]

This has happened to me before. I have a lot of notes and screenshots and bookmarks and journalings about girls and techniques. I even have goals and feats listed in my Reminders and Notes apps that have been seen before. An ex of mine also once found my photo collection of a bunch of my past flings... that was a nightmare

Back when I had more to prove I would sometimes talk about game with girls or girlfriends, and proudly regale with them how much I have improved myself through websites like this. Nowadays I much rather enjoy playing ignorant about why I have it so easy with women. It's just a more powerful position being "the prize" versus being the deliberate though successful playboy. You can still be "the prize" that knows it and even flaunts it, but it has to come across as being entirely due to who you are and more or less always have been.

One might think knowing deep down, I DID extensively study this stuff, my frame would somewhat weaken. But I increasingly don't see myself as a guy who had to study hard to get to where I am with women. That was old me. He doesn't really exist anymore outside of memory. And old me was still very much a BIG prize, he just didn't know it or know how to take advantage of it. Finally, when I read GC material now, I am doing it because it greatly resonates with me, not because I need it. Therefore, no mental incongruences.

Highly recommend Chase's advice about keeping all this stuff on an Admin or "work" account that is password protected. I have the majority of stuff locked down, and plan to get the rest eventually (want to organize it concurrently). Don't know what I would do if anyone ever found me on this forum though...

 

[Dimension]

Why do you feel the need for her approval? And why the inclination to keep that information from her? It's not as if you're engaging in morally questionable activities.
If I were in your shoes, I might approach it lightheartedly by remarking, "Have you seen the competition lately? We're practically being outshined out there! It's like survival of the fittest in the dating world."

 

[rockstar]

Every single time a girl has gone through my phone, I'm terrified that they found my pickup group chats with all the photos and lay reports and bro convos, but they're always just paranoid about other girls and think the dirt is in my ig dms or texts and never think to open telegram...

 

[Conquistador]

Every single time a girl has gone through my phone

Why do you let them do that

 

[Lover]

At one lecture many years ago, I accidently opened one of the e-books you get from the main site after you answer some questions. I think it was called beginner or technician?

There was a cover picture of an attractive woman on it. I hurried up and closed it down I think one former classmate saw it, but she never questioned it and no one asked me about it since

I decided it was easier to keep this part of my life a secret because of my career. I can't predict the outcomes if someone found out, and I don't want to take any risk. Everything's hidden on a second dropbox account that is not connected to my laptop and can only be accessed by signing in on a browser. And I browse incognito when I'm looking for seduction stuff

A couple of girls have been surprised by my social skills and asked me a bit about my background. I tell them a short story about how I used to struggle socially and made a choice to meet new people with curiosity and develop more people skills that way. This hasn't backfired yet, and I'm sticking to this to keep it vanilla

 

[Warped Mindless]

I’d ask her if she has anything good to add to the notes and then I’d smack her ass and call her a bad girl for snooping through my stuff.