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Hey guys,
I have recently came to a conclusion that your past good experience in dating and seducing girls can stall your progress if you're not careful.
Here's what I think.
As humans, our mind usually interpret the present moment using our past experience that is the most similar to the present moment, and as a result most of us will do what got us the best result in the past. Most people do this subconsciously, and hence that's why when you're starting out you should get more "reference experience" so that your mind can pick up a pattern that gives you the best result. However, there are always experiences that your mind can't explain, and sometimes it will choose to ignore them because it thinks they're completely "random". This will happen a lot as you start to sleep with girls from time to time, and you stop having the "urge" to figure out why a girl act certain way because you have the abundance to move on and find girls who are more receptive to you. However, figuring out these "anomalies" are critical to your learning and understanding of women.
Next time, you meet a girl that don't respond the same way like other girls to your seduction, be present in the moment and try something completely different. Things that you "assume" will fail because you haven't read about it on GC. Things that you only tried a couple of times before but it didn't work so you're too scared to try again. or even try things that completely contradict what your previous experience told you not to do! Push yourself out of your comfort zone. Don't be scare to face your fear. Don't get comfortable in your "success".
I have recently came to a conclusion that your past good experience in dating and seducing girls can stall your progress if you're not careful.
Here's what I think.
As humans, our mind usually interpret the present moment using our past experience that is the most similar to the present moment, and as a result most of us will do what got us the best result in the past. Most people do this subconsciously, and hence that's why when you're starting out you should get more "reference experience" so that your mind can pick up a pattern that gives you the best result. However, there are always experiences that your mind can't explain, and sometimes it will choose to ignore them because it thinks they're completely "random". This will happen a lot as you start to sleep with girls from time to time, and you stop having the "urge" to figure out why a girl act certain way because you have the abundance to move on and find girls who are more receptive to you. However, figuring out these "anomalies" are critical to your learning and understanding of women.
Next time, you meet a girl that don't respond the same way like other girls to your seduction, be present in the moment and try something completely different. Things that you "assume" will fail because you haven't read about it on GC. Things that you only tried a couple of times before but it didn't work so you're too scared to try again. or even try things that completely contradict what your previous experience told you not to do! Push yourself out of your comfort zone. Don't be scare to face your fear. Don't get comfortable in your "success".
