I’m in a one-sided monogamy relationship, what to respond to “Do you have have a girlfriend?” on dates?

[blazerfury]

I’m currently in an amazing LTR with a girl who’s check all my boxes. She’s a 8.5 in term of looks. I’m 30 years old, she’s 25. We’re happy together. However since the very beginning I’ve told her I want to have more sexual experiences and I wanted an open relationship and she’s okay with it.
However, when I go on dates with other girls and they ask me if I have a girlfriend. Whenever I say yes but we’re in an open relationship it’s a blow out. What’s a response that is telling the truth but also move the seduction forward. @Chase

 

[James D]

Are you planning on having multiple relationships with multiple girlfriends?

Or do you mean you'll have one girlfriend and several sexual escapades that only go as far as FWB?

If it's the latter, then just lie.

Or say that you have a gf but don't specify "open relationship"

Saying you're in an open relationship pretty much translates to "I'm only looking to bang" which screens out girls who aren't DTF.

If it's the former case, where you're planning multiple relationships and the girl you're on a date with could be potential girlfriend #4, then yeah gotta be more tactful how to present that.

Don't have personal experience with that so I won't suggest anything.

But if it's just about having a gf and banging other chicks, it's a non-issue.

Either white lie or say you have a gf (some girls get really excited by that) but don't mention open relationship.