And first of all, this is not some "There's this one girl I really like but never talked to" thing.
I am a 16 year old from Germany. There was this kind of class trip for the past 4 days where many students from my school (14-18 year olds) are basically drinking every night (the older ones. Including me and my friends), but many don't know each other. Especially the different "age groups"...
I'll try to make this as short as possible. All of us were drinking yesterday. I meet new (older) people and get out of my group to join theirs. Everybody has a great time and we all get along so we go to their room. I start making out with a 17 year old girl (this is a big deal for everyone since I recently turned 16 and she's almost 18). Some other stuff happens and everyone left (a teacher busted some of us smoking in the room) except for the girls who lived in that room and me still making out with the girl.
We tease us, grope, etc. and just vibe, every other girl in that room is asleep. I made sure she doesn't want anything long-term and talked and shit. Now at some point (like an hour in) I had to leave suddenly and get back to my room.
Next day (today) the trip is over and everyone is busy packing stuff and shit. I don't have a chance to talk to her, but some of my female friends talked to her and she told them she had a blackout (which doesn't mean it's true, we told each other we wouldn't talk about it to others). Now everyone's home again and we have a 1 week long vacation.
I'd love to have a casual relationship with her and get to know her, but also want make sure she doesn't regret anything and didn't have a blackout.
I'm not sure whether it's appropriate to contact her after all of this + the only way to get her number would be asking my ex for it since they kind of know each other..
I hope you guys understand my situation. Don't tell me that I shouldn't drink etc. (I know my limits and it's legal) but please do actually give me advice on what to do right now. Should I get the number and text her about her being ok? Or should I just leave it and not make it awkward?
Thank you for reading and possibly helping!
I am a 16 year old from Germany. There was this kind of class trip for the past 4 days where many students from my school (14-18 year olds) are basically drinking every night (the older ones. Including me and my friends), but many don't know each other. Especially the different "age groups"...
I'll try to make this as short as possible. All of us were drinking yesterday. I meet new (older) people and get out of my group to join theirs. Everybody has a great time and we all get along so we go to their room. I start making out with a 17 year old girl (this is a big deal for everyone since I recently turned 16 and she's almost 18). Some other stuff happens and everyone left (a teacher busted some of us smoking in the room) except for the girls who lived in that room and me still making out with the girl.
We tease us, grope, etc. and just vibe, every other girl in that room is asleep. I made sure she doesn't want anything long-term and talked and shit. Now at some point (like an hour in) I had to leave suddenly and get back to my room.
Next day (today) the trip is over and everyone is busy packing stuff and shit. I don't have a chance to talk to her, but some of my female friends talked to her and she told them she had a blackout (which doesn't mean it's true, we told each other we wouldn't talk about it to others). Now everyone's home again and we have a 1 week long vacation.
I'd love to have a casual relationship with her and get to know her, but also want make sure she doesn't regret anything and didn't have a blackout.
I'm not sure whether it's appropriate to contact her after all of this + the only way to get her number would be asking my ex for it since they kind of know each other..
I hope you guys understand my situation. Don't tell me that I shouldn't drink etc. (I know my limits and it's legal) but please do actually give me advice on what to do right now. Should I get the number and text her about her being ok? Or should I just leave it and not make it awkward?
Thank you for reading and possibly helping!
