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Hi guys,
it’s been a while. I had a ons last week with a pretty cute girl (I will write a lr when I get the time).
The one thing that stood out was, after she was done giving me head she said “I hope you don’t mind if we dont have sex tonight. I had a bad experience with guys. I hope I can trust you want do anything against my consent.” I asked her what was with that guy and assured her I want do anything that she wouldn’t want me to do. I just want to please her and leave her better than I found her. After that she iniciated sex.
It was great, aside from that, I really dig this chick as a person. In the morning I left a note saying “Had a great time, see you sometime ”. I didn’t want to wake her up and I knew I could get her number from a friend who knows her.
I got the number. 2 days after another friend who is a tatoo artist tells me that this girl was todays costumer. Apperantly she said I’m a good person and and that she had a good time.
5 days later I text her “Hey, its DG. How are you? I see you already met all my friends ” to which I get no reply.
Yesterday I went to the same venue and met her. I greet her in a casual way, then she proposes we go sit somewhere and talk.
I joke why the formality... then ask her did she get my text. Because I thought she wanted to hear from me. She said that its not cool that other people give away her number that only she can give away her number. I told her I did’t want to wake her up, because I knew I could get her number from a friend. Then she started asking me how would I react if she didn’t want to have sex with me. Do I see her purely as a sex object or do I value her as a person, as somebody worth talking to. I told her that I like her energy, that I like her and of course I want to have sex with her. I had some ons with girls I dont want to see again, but with her it was different. I felt like we connectes.
Then as she was about to speak her mind her friend and friends boyfriend (who I know) comes and she rushes away with her friend. That felt like shit and I needed to get sleep anyways so I chated with friends boyfriend a bit then went home.
Before I do anything stupid I want to hear your opinion. I was thinking of backing away, not texting her (her objection on not giving other peoples numbers) but then again I feel like I should reasure her that I value her.
And that stuff with not having sex because of bad experiences sounds pretty fishy to me...
Thanks guys!
it’s been a while. I had a ons last week with a pretty cute girl (I will write a lr when I get the time).
The one thing that stood out was, after she was done giving me head she said “I hope you don’t mind if we dont have sex tonight. I had a bad experience with guys. I hope I can trust you want do anything against my consent.” I asked her what was with that guy and assured her I want do anything that she wouldn’t want me to do. I just want to please her and leave her better than I found her. After that she iniciated sex.
It was great, aside from that, I really dig this chick as a person. In the morning I left a note saying “Had a great time, see you sometime ”. I didn’t want to wake her up and I knew I could get her number from a friend who knows her.
I got the number. 2 days after another friend who is a tatoo artist tells me that this girl was todays costumer. Apperantly she said I’m a good person and and that she had a good time.
5 days later I text her “Hey, its DG. How are you? I see you already met all my friends ” to which I get no reply.
Yesterday I went to the same venue and met her. I greet her in a casual way, then she proposes we go sit somewhere and talk.
I joke why the formality... then ask her did she get my text. Because I thought she wanted to hear from me. She said that its not cool that other people give away her number that only she can give away her number. I told her I did’t want to wake her up, because I knew I could get her number from a friend. Then she started asking me how would I react if she didn’t want to have sex with me. Do I see her purely as a sex object or do I value her as a person, as somebody worth talking to. I told her that I like her energy, that I like her and of course I want to have sex with her. I had some ons with girls I dont want to see again, but with her it was different. I felt like we connectes.
Then as she was about to speak her mind her friend and friends boyfriend (who I know) comes and she rushes away with her friend. That felt like shit and I needed to get sleep anyways so I chated with friends boyfriend a bit then went home.
Before I do anything stupid I want to hear your opinion. I was thinking of backing away, not texting her (her objection on not giving other peoples numbers) but then again I feel like I should reasure her that I value her.
And that stuff with not having sex because of bad experiences sounds pretty fishy to me...
Thanks guys!