" I don't talk to strangers" shit test

[Spyce D]

So. I opened this chick a few days ago. But as I said excuse me , I observed that her eyes were watery for some reason , so I just asked her if she was crying . ( I am able to calibrate now ) .

She said no so I just did a compliment opener ( maybe should have tried something else but couldn't think at that time ) .

I tried to exchange names but she told me that she doesn't talk to strangers . I simply said ok cuz I was tired .

But as she left I asked her about the accent ( it happened naturally ) cuz it sounded different and I did a bit of teasing there and she came back a few steps but eventually left .


Anyways , it's the 2 nd time I got " I don't talk to strangers" shit test .

Any idea how to deal with it .


I am thinking of " you already are " or something else with a playful energy .

 

[Spyce D]

Couldn't edit so writing here.

Another thing I am thinking is about the concept of how mostly everyone in our life is stranger at first and stuff .

 

[rzzseducerfr]

All our friends were strangers at some point. People meet strangers all the time. It's your frame that will win in such situations. If you truly believe that you are a cool guy who has no problem making connections with strangers, it will project naturally. Being playful like the line on top, "Too late you already are" works wonders because ur being confident and playful. But the energy behind the line to make it work is that you are cool and u dont think that talking to strangers is weird. Otherwise the line will fall flat

Please do not use the "I think everyone in our life were strangers etc" because it shows that you reacted to her. You started justifying like a weak bitch. You shouldn't care and ride over it with playful energy. After joking about it, then you can in a NEUTRAL TONE talk about how we all meet people that were strangers but are our closest friends now. Do not react to her frame, keep your frame solid. The frame should be that you believe in yourself, dont take to heart what strangers say, and are confident and cool to make connections with literally anyone. Stay cocky.
Remember, it's not what you say ie the routines etc but HOW YOU SAY IT. (Vibe, cockiness, confidence, selfesteem, playfullness, fun etc)
Stay hard

 

[Spyce D]

After joking about it, then you can in a NEUTRAL TONE talk about how we all meet people that were strangers but are our closest friends

Well that's my point.

But I generally end these kind of stacks / convos with accusatory humour which gets them qualifying ( if they are interested . ) Or I will try to introduce tension

 

[DarkJedi]

Honestly, if you get "I don't talk to strangers" she probably didn't like your approach or just is in a weird headspace. Can happen. Same as "I have a boyfriend" line within first 10 seconds. A girl who liked your approach would rarely say something like that. They like that they have been approached by someone cool, even if they are unavailable.

Best to focus on improving your fundamentals and approach imo.

 

[gameboy]

"Then let's not be strangers"

 

[Spyce D]

Honestly, if you get "I don't talk to strangers" she probably didn't like your approach or just is in a weird headspace. Can happen. Same as "I have a boyfriend" line within first 10 seconds. A girl who liked your approach would rarely say something like that. They like that they have been approached by someone cool, even if they are unavailable.

Best to focus on improving your fundamentals and approach imo.

This happens rarely but when it did . I never had the tech to handle it

 

[Spyce D]

"Then let's not be strangers"

Great

 

[Bill]

“me either, it’s creepy“

 

[rzzseducerfr]

"Then let's not be strangers"

smooth boy