I don't think i ever getting married. i'm jumping the gun. Bang Bang.

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Guys,

I don't think i am ever getting married. Now, you might say that "ar, he's young. His balls will dry and he be like us".

Maybe. Maybe i be 'forgiving' and less testesterone if you will. Hahaha. but i can't see myself in it for various various reasons. Afterawhile, women just bore me. Marriage is just an idea and people are scared, that's why they need conformities to make their decision in almost everything. And i can practically insult people for eons like how those "religious" people gain momentum and went on verbal rampage BUT they never answer the question. Ta da! "Facade truths", a term i called it, where you show people an actual truth with evidences but you avoid getting suck into questions by the opposition or answering your opposition. You decline his paradigm. You use emotions stacking to amplify your truth, which really only is just one side of the building, and you avoid answering the question, what and why. To perceive a person's paradigm means you entering an unknown territory where you can get destroyed too.

Sorry people, i just reveal something that makes women really angry and become feminist. Their problems are not addressed. That's why women today are angry.

SUBMISSION. LOLX. Okay, now that i express my opinion to conformity/people, i want to run now. XD

Zac

 

[Chase]

Zac-

Not commenting on the content of the post, since all I can really do there is repeat the same old notes about the end-of-history illusion. However, this:

"ar, he's young. His balls will dry and he be like us".

... is a piece of comic gold.

I can't say I've ever heard of old men described as having 'dry balls', but now that I've heard it I can't stop chuckling...

Chase

 

[trashKENNUT]

Oh common Chase.

Before anything, thanks for the link. Look, it is not that i am against marriage. Your knowledge open my eyes I like to share this two things and hopefully people understand and you understand, or just hear this young man rant out. Afterall, conformity. :X kk i am kidding.

1)My past and how it affects
2)Facts

When you are young, you are supposed to share everything, and you kind of don't have your opinion, your own stuff, your own money, your own room, your own <insert> whatever, unless you're a Westerner where all your parents said was go to your room. That's the stereotype i am assuming (from Russell Peters, of course). I didn't have that. And i was ridiculed by it. For most of society, Asian, and probably india, middle east.... they are shamed on it. And this affects everybody till adulthood that you see society's problems today. Sure, society's problems is more than just suppression and oppression of you when you were younger.

Okay, this is number 2. Facts

We all know the vagueness of life. But recently i received a Facebook notification on posts. I check my post from 4 years ago and i wrote that i wanted to get married. I don't hate that post. I recognize who i was, and i try to be self aware when i go 'retard' (if you will, lolx). Here's the thing, I know what i see, and if you feel i am wrong, please show it to me. Tell me what you think and feel, and what you see for yourself. I want to learn. Share it with me. I want to find the "truth".

I figure out facts that i thought was just mere but it was deeper than i thought. One example is "everyone wants to be number1".

Mainly because growing up, i feel like i was lied, and even if i see things, it was denied. This is where i am adamant. How do i get people "free", is another.

As one of the Matrix quote, "Old man like me don't bother making points. There is no point". The matrix reference is just a reference. I can't convince anybody anything. I just want people to be "free", and i am figuring it out.

Anyway, i am figuring life out. You need to let this young man see the world!

Zac

 

[Drck]

It always depends how we look at things...

From point of view of most guys studying seduction, marriage doesn't make much sense. Perhaps it did in the past to secure land, money and power but we are past that point. This guy can go out and have fun with many girls, so why settle down with one?

...But there are other views to consider. For example, I believe that stable marriage and loving family is good for children. I met couple of people who grew up without one parent, especially a father, and they were usually somehow messed up in one way or another...

There are studies that show children who were raised in stable families achieve overall better education, work and income, which simply transfers to overall satisfaction and happiness... It simply makes sense, both parents can split the house work, they can more time with the children, they both can contribute financially...

If single mom works full time and makes $20-30,000 per year (which many don't) in USA, and has to take care of 2 children without father, she may have quite rough time... Take care of 2 children, go to work, bring food home daily, make sure they do homework and have good grades, clean up clothes and house, take children for vacation... It is too much, it is very stressful for the mom. She gets depressed, she gets less productive, she needs lots of support from government (for which everybody pays from taxes).... Perhaps there is also overall lower education and higher crime rate amongs people who grew up in broken families, because none of the parents paid enough attention to the children?

Such children are mainly raised by stressed and depressed mom; their education level is lower, thus the potential to get better job is also lower. The potential to commit crime is higher because they simply didn't have authority at home (father) who would correct their behavior... They are more likely to start using drugs, they are more likely to be depressed, more likely to be less productive... But that is not all, who is paying for that? The whole society is paying...

On the other hand, if there are two parents, they simply have more resources, more income, more time spent with the children, and overall less stress... It is much easier, more manageable, and overall the children are raised in better environment... They get better education, better jobs, they get more income, they have more freedom... Society doesn't have to pay as much, if anything at all...

That is of course only one family, but how about the whole society? It is quite tempting to say that the more functional families the better the overall society does. That also makes sense, more people are better educated, more productive, they raise children on their own (without financial support from government)...

So maybe that whole thing that we call Life is not just about us... Maybe it is about other people too, especially children... about their life, their future... In other words, there is nothing wrong with Zac holding two children by their hands who are screaming: Daddy, Daddy! Buy me that ice cream Daddy!

 

[trashKENNUT]

Drck,

You talking about families and children. To go there, what's the point of raising idiotic male followers and what's the point of promoting marriage? Don't you realize it is a self destruction cycle but let's go to the important point.

Simple answer: We are all Numbers. For the next generation to pay debts, when food and crops aren't necessarily always going to be there. There's conflicitng information on food production and research.

But this is not the point i am talking about. We all are numbers. We all have to play a part. There's nothing wrong being a number. My problem is being fundamentally free.

Here's the fact:

They are preserving the narrative they are telling society to be functionally economic, where families are encouraged and people are not suppose to rebel too much. Guess what? Don't you recognize everything is going down as well? It is not "working". It is a structural problem and this is what i am pointing at.

"It is not working". Sure, who am i to say such things. I don't even hold a PHD, let alone a degree. What i mean by it is not "working"? but this are facts on today's males and females.

- Women today wants to be number 1, while they themselves don't recognize that marriage, patriarchy was itself a partnership.
- Society encourages women to be number 1, while not being virgins and ask for marriage.
- Men, as you said are to be "Functional", are not "functional". So what's the point?

Look, i'm not trying to say that women are alone at fault and that women has to be virgins but also.... you cannot just lie, while you shake that booty on Facebook, deviating fellow males by Facebook few days later by talking about "Jesus". (it's hilarious but on a serious note, there's a deep problem)

And i am not even the guy who see things as TOTALLY BLACK AND WHITE

But this is not about women, really. This is me as an employee telling the fucking employer (the government/the world) that there is a problem. Sure enough, i work with many employers. Most of them are idiots and ego for no apparent reason. Those i work with who are cool with me, find me a great employee. Obviously i need to work with idiots, be better at communicating with such people. There's no need for ego, especially when you are failing OBVIOUSLY, and let alone only me and you, and i am trying to help you, help us.

Sorry for the rant. I am just annoyed at how society is. The narrative is blatantly flawed. It work in the past. Now it doesn't. I don't like to blame people. I just want things to "work". I realize that is the whole idea of politics. To bullshit and never be progressive about it. I guess we all are that.

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

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