Since I moved to my girlfriends place (we have an open LTR) I am now surrounded by the upscale folks in my neighborhood. I come from Oslo, Norway. And as a native here I am fully aware of the differences between the working class and middle class part of town as opposed to the parts of town where the rich folks live. Me myself come from a pretty humble, working class background. I am trying my best to succeed, and I am always approaching as many girls as I can when I am out (between 1 -3 girls a day).
But the thing is that I find it really hard to have great interactions with women from the better parts of town. I open them the exactly the same way as I open every cute girl I see (direct or indirect). I deep dive, and I always try to go for an instadate or a number. But these girls wont give me the time of day. They act aloof, give me short, one sentence answers and eject from our interaction much quicker. It is also very rare that these girls give me IOIs and when they do, some of them start acting a little cold when they find out that I am from the less wealthy part of town.
These girls are usually more beautiful than their eastside counterparts (where I am from), but I have also had great interactions with women from my part of town that are at least equally pretty. I don't think it has to do with their appearance, though. But maybe it has to do with mine?
I have worked a lot on my fundamentals. I have been smart about my clothes and I always try to look my best when I go out. However my style is not like theirs, (their clothes are much more expensive), but I feel like my approach is pretty good and my fundamentals are ok enough to at least have good reactions when I direct approach women in my city (witch has a population of about 700 000).
Could it be that the competition in these parts of town is more fierce? Guys over here look much better and are more success-oriented than guys from my part of town. Could it be that these women usually dont want to date outside their social class?
I really don't want to hide my background, and its pretty easy to see that I am from the eastside part of town. We speak a little different and wear different clothes. But if my game and fundamentals are tight, why should my clothes and accent have negative impact on these girls?
But the thing is that I find it really hard to have great interactions with women from the better parts of town. I open them the exactly the same way as I open every cute girl I see (direct or indirect). I deep dive, and I always try to go for an instadate or a number. But these girls wont give me the time of day. They act aloof, give me short, one sentence answers and eject from our interaction much quicker. It is also very rare that these girls give me IOIs and when they do, some of them start acting a little cold when they find out that I am from the less wealthy part of town.
These girls are usually more beautiful than their eastside counterparts (where I am from), but I have also had great interactions with women from my part of town that are at least equally pretty. I don't think it has to do with their appearance, though. But maybe it has to do with mine?
I have worked a lot on my fundamentals. I have been smart about my clothes and I always try to look my best when I go out. However my style is not like theirs, (their clothes are much more expensive), but I feel like my approach is pretty good and my fundamentals are ok enough to at least have good reactions when I direct approach women in my city (witch has a population of about 700 000).
Could it be that the competition in these parts of town is more fierce? Guys over here look much better and are more success-oriented than guys from my part of town. Could it be that these women usually dont want to date outside their social class?
I really don't want to hide my background, and its pretty easy to see that I am from the eastside part of town. We speak a little different and wear different clothes. But if my game and fundamentals are tight, why should my clothes and accent have negative impact on these girls?
