I got ahead of myself

[Anonymous]

This is my first post on GirlsChase. My life has drastically changed since I found this site. I'm in college right now in the US and before this last fall semester started in August 2014 I had been with TWO girls in my life. Both were extremely regretful experiences. One was an absolute troll that I could probably persecute for "rape" by law. (She bought me lots of shots, paid for a cab to take us to her place, paid the driver to buy us condoms at a gas station, and proceeded to fuck me without me remembering anything.) The second time I had sex was with my best friends ex-girlfriend when we where both black-out... So sex fucking scared the shit out of me. I was close to suicide (for a lot of different reasons but my sexual history played a part.)

Anyway, I found GirlsChase and it was a total game changer. Last fall semester I slept with 4 cute girls and in the spring semester another 5. Then the summer started and I had sex with 2 girls in one week and I felt on top of the world!

But then I hit a wall. I've never had sex with a "hot" girl, just "ok" girls. I'm still in college and I'm just lost. I don't know what I'm asking for. I don't know if I can be helped. I don't think this post is adding any meaningful discussion to the boards so I kind of feel bad for posting it.

I posted on here because everyone from Chase, other writers, and you guys on the boards have helped me so much. I've read so much from all of you all and tried to follow the best I can. I'm extremely smart, I'm not bad looking, and I'm kind of short. I'm ok with it though because I can't do anything about it lol.

If I have nothing of value to add let me at least say I'm very grateful for everyone that's ever contributed to this site. I'll keep trying to get better because you guys make me believe I can. One day, I'll make it.

- Wildcat

 

[ray_zorse]

Are you cold approaching?

By that I mean, do you walk around downtown, or in shopping malls etc, noticing the hottest girls and going up and speaking to them? Or, around the college campus, if you spot a cute girl walking to class do you go up to her and say "hi"? Because if not, that's why you're not laying the hottest women, I mean there are some obstacles, for instance hotter women have more options and therefore can afford to be more picky... but at a fundamental level, the more women you meet, the more women you lay.

Ray

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

But then I hit a wall. I've never had sex with a "hot" girl, just "ok" girls.

Most guys will not approach hot women because they are afraid. Most of the guys that approach hot women are good looking egotistical assholes. So when you approached a hot girl she will find you a nice change from the assholes. Women are attracted to good looking men but not nearly as strongly as men are to good looking women. Many women are more attracted to men they perceive as good providers. You have been perceiving hot girls as unreachable. Why, because you have convinced yourself you are not attractive to them. The honest truth is there are many hot girls who will find you attractive. You just have to get past your perceptions and approach the hot ones. There is a study that showed we find one in every 15 persons attractive. So you will have to approach several girls to find the one attracted to you. Keep working on your skills. You will soon be bedding women you find very hot.