I got her number, now what? (in a new country)

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Space Monkey
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Hi guys. I'm in a brand new country. I don't know anyone here but I did meet a girl that was working as a waitress.

The day before, I was trying to buy some clothes but I couldn't understand what the local was saying, so they brought her over (lets call A). A was a girl working next door and she translated for me briefly before parting ways. The next day, I went to a restaurant and she worked there. (I had no clue)

Me: I know you! You're from yesterday
Her: (Smiles) Hi.

I order some food, make a small talk, get back to my work.
As time goes on, I saw that she would hover near me and walk away.

After some time, I started talking to her again.

Me: You must be having the time of your life :)
Her: Totally. I love this place!
Me: I can tell. So what's your name?
Her: I'm A.
Me: I'm Davincn, nice to meet you.

Soon we start talking about variety of topics as she takes orders from other customers.

We talked about music, movies, where we wanna travel, what she wants to do after college, etc. (I was there for a few hours)
We start to get a bit flirty and I also noticed that she took her jacket off even though it was cold. (She had an amazing body)
I mention she must be cold which she just smiles and says it's nothing for her, which I tease that she must be part Russian, she laughs.

Me: Ye should get some food sometime!
Her: I can tell you some good spots!
Me: You don't wanna come with me? (sarcastic hand over heart as if to say my heart breaks)
Her: She laughs and says nooo! I'm always working. I have this job and another job. Im working 7x a week.
Me: (I forget what I say and we move on to the next topic)

We start talking about our romantic lives.
I find out that she recently had 'her heart broken'.

Her: Yeah, I hate my ex. (Pauses) A bit emotional. I'll be right back I'm gonna have a smoke break.

After a while she comesback

Her: I'm back!
Me: Did you cry?
Her: No, I don't cry over guys. Just a bit emotional.
Me: I'm sorry to hear that.
Her: Yeah all men are bad!
Me: All men? (giving her side stare)
Her: Well, not all men. Just the local guys! (looks at me and laughs)

Me: So any plans after work?
Her: Can you keep a secret?
Me: I have no friends here, so I def have no choice.
Her: (Laughs) I'm quitting work today, but they don't know yet.
Me: :O Why!
Her: My co-workers don't like me. I don't like this place.

(A bit back and forth)

Anyway, it's about time for me to leave and I end it here.

Me: You know I like your personality, let's keep in touch.
Her: I would love to. But I can't give you my phone number cause my coworkers are all staring.
Me: Okay, i'll act like I'm showing you something on your computer and just blurt out your number
Her: (Blurts out her number) Did you get it? Okay, let me see it just to double check
Me: (Shows her).
Her: okay that's the right number, take my instagram too.
Me: I don't have social media but ill text you!

And we part ways.

Later that day, I text her

Me: Hey A! Hope you enjoyed your last day at work :) I promise I won't tell anyone here.
Her: Hi Davinci! I did enjoy my last day. And thank you
Me: :) have a good night!
Her: thanks, you too! :)

Now it's been about two days. I'm not sure what to text.

Any suggestions?
 

Skills

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your texting was very good! you being new to a country is a dhv, fresh meet to women, women love this or guys 6 months out of a long term.... Just ping... I recommend 2 different low effort pings more on this here:

 

DaVinciMatrixStyle

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Thanks @skill! I read your article and did just that!

Good morning!
Her: morning davincin☺️

To be continued..
 
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