You are talking to someone who starts often with, fwo, three feet of space between me, and other women; I could move closer, without being super close, is what Im saying. As is, I'm kind of reactive, and want to be closer then in SIberia, when starting out talking to women. In any case, I am getting wquite a bit better, if only in my confidence that I can attract a fairly swathe of the female population, just by confidence, and goodd posture, without being creepy. I'm working in innuendo and flirtation, and am getting decent reactions, so far; I think I'm statrting to get it.