I have a Problem with nightgame

[leadingbealwaysido]

I am coming to you guys for some serious advice here..

Long story short... I did a lot of nightgame years ago and got burned out...

Now i absolutely hate nightgame!

And one year ago i started doing daygame and are having decent results there.

However because I am travelling (brazil now) there are some places that women do not feel very safe and it is not a walkable city. This makes daygame sporadic...

I try to go into some club or bar, but just get very distrought and tired... I have had good experiences also once i am in some kinda superhuman state, but all the years going out without any results has kinda created a micro trauma with nightgame.

Now there is something to be said for actually being honest with oneself and not trying to be a "nightgame" person with force, but I am just curios if any of you had been feeling the same before and ended up either changing to enjoy nightgame (alone or with friends), or decided to only go for daygame.

 

[Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem]

Did u figure out WHY u weren't getting any results in night game during all those years? If you can find the problem then you can likely move past it once you've found the solution.

The fundamentals from daygame carry over to night game and vice versa so if your too discouraged to try night game right now, then maybe revisit nighttime after your daygame skills have improved. The success you will have gotten from daygame should give you confidence to try night game.

Another idea, maybe go out with friends to the club to just have a good time and drink and dance. The focus would be on having fun, not pick up girls. I'm pretty sure after a couple times of doing this, you'll naturally want to approach a girl because you'll be in a good mood.

That's just what happens to me, If im having fun then I approach more and care less about the rejections.

Have fun, don't take it too seriously, and good luck.

Best,
Lord Byron

 

[leadingbealwaysido]

I guess my problem is that is truly hard for me to have fun in that setting... I rarely like the music, because most often the DJ sucks in my opinion haha. I do not have a natural inclination towards dancing either, so trying to dance to music I dont like is just like randomly doing squats in a bus stop.

Good question though with the sticking point... I was able to open girls, but there was not any hook, interest and attraction... I guess i went out 3-5 nights a week for at least 1,5 years. Also not drinking anything other than water...

I truly believe that when you have fun (are present) you get more interest from the girls and i started to experience this a little bit before i quit nightgame, and it was always on the days where I did the things i loved... These days the girls would just stare me down, it was surreal actually. Going from no girls offering half a second of eye contact to them chasing me with their eyes... However i stopped doing nightgame at that moment becauuse i realized how important it was for me to follow my inspiration.

I dont know man, I do not feel like daygame and nightgame is the same thing... Like most places you cant even talk because the music is too loud, and gutter game, the girls has their guards up alot.