Focus on what is working and avoid what is not working.
Most people focus on their failures and somehow they forgot success. They think that by focusing on failure they will change it to success. It doesn't work that way. If a guy gets a girl and 'almost' has sex, but for some reason it doesn't work out (didn't finish the last 5%), he starts feeling failure - he thinks he did everything wrong, he beats himself up over and over, he feels like a crap. He then analyzes this failure over and over, he makes it more important than it is.
What for? What for do you need miserable feelings? Avoid those feelings, avoid analyzing failures.
You did 95% right and only 5% wrong. You should be celebrating success, and not thinking about failure. You should be paying 95% of your attention to those 95% of success, and only 5% attention to those 5% failure. Not just in seduction, but in your whole life. Most people do it the other way, they pay 95% of attention to their 5% failure, and they pay 5% of attention to 95% of success. Don't be most people, be successful by studying success.
So if something is working out, repeat it. There are lots of different girls, repeat those 95% of success that lead you to be 'almost there', and next time push for the last 5%.
* Go out and celebrate, celebrate great job. 95% done, you should be happy, you should feel great about it. Get a good meal in a restaurant, treat yourself for doing a great job
* And stop jerking off for the next 2-3 weeks, this will give you the 'energy' for the last 5% next time... 3 weeks is doable, no?
