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Alright so I matched with this Turkish girl on tinder. Her profile showed a semi/dark picture with super short hair (Although her whatsapp pic is her in a bikini with long hair).
We made small talk a bit, she studied in the same university though 3-4 years older than me, she studied arts and giving acting classes. We goofed around a bit regarding her love for snow. Then I invited her to have a drink.
She asked me if she could kindly have my phone number or something like that. I teased her about how polite she asked for my number. She said she talked to a guy recently who did not want to give his phone number as if he "didn't wanna give it before marriage" jokingly. I told her that I was pretty open minded guy and I do give my phone no. in the context of respect and love (better worded in Turkish).
When I told her that I was free until Wednesday and asked for her availability. She deflected and wanted to call. Cool. She wants some rapport build. I said alright and she called me half an hour later. Right after I picked up and we exchanged a few words, my battery died.
I charged my battery and called her back about an hour later. We exchanged a quick pleasantries again but then her door rang and she said someone was at her door. I said cool, get that and we said by.
She texted saying her mom came and she was going home now. I said no worries and said that we were discussing her availability, she asked me if I was available and called me.
We talked a bit and she said she didn't like texting and wanted to see my energy over the phone (I agreed that text was a poor substitute for interpersonal relations). She asked me about myself like tell me about yourself, what do you do stuff like that. I laughed and said that that was to general and asked what specifically interested her. She said some stuff but then asked me what I was into sexually. Her voice trailed of when she said this as if she was unsure of herself and was apprehensive. In fact this continued throughout the topic. But I got the distinct impression that this was just a practiced move of a seductress, designed to lure men in and raise her attainability.
I chuckled and said why werent we saving that for when we actually met up. She said that she was just curious but if it made me uncomfortable we didn't have to talk about it. I said that was perfectly fine and I understood her need to screen because not every partner was remotely same and having experience tends to make one more selective asked her to go first, what did turn her on?
She said she loved pain, she loved being dominated, she enjoyed dominating men too but in terms of psychological torture such as orgasm denial not physical. I told her that orgasm denial was truly powerful and gave her a recap of Alex's 8 types of orgasms gambit, streasing that orgasm denial was one of the ways for a full body orgasm. I also said that I liked dominating girls, such as choking them and talked a bit about erotic asphyxiation (somewhere in our conversation).
She agreed and said she only had it once and said this that she was doing kegel exercises for 10 years, there was a time a guys dick got stuck in her, I asked her a bit about this (but my wandered a bit during her explanation lol), complimented on finding good sex and asked her if she ever had orgasmed from breasts smilulation, she said no nd was starting to explain sth (maybe she didn't really like that? dunno) and told her that it was indeed rare but I made my ex cum by simulating her breasts and it was priceless to see her face when she realized it. Then tied to topic back to having sex with different people were different and sometimes you found someone you just clicked exceptionally on a sexual level. I actually think the last part was not necessary as I felt like I qualified myself a little after I told her. But we both agreed that what was import was having fun.
I said let's keep some things for when we meet up and we made some small talk. Then I asked her what was her availability, she told me "you're free on tuesday and wednesday right?" I told her it was monday and tuesday. She said okay lets decide tomorrow then, I didn't insist and said sure.
I was pretty high during the interaction and wasnt super suave. In case you got my meaning wrong, I wasn't nervous at all or didn't stutter at all but I think I could have made a better job of getting her to talk more, teasing her and flirting more. My demeanour was half amused / half matter-of-fact. But this is good because next time this happens I will be even more in control.
This is obviously an experienced and highly novelty seeking girl, crazy girl in another word. I do alright with crazy but my experience shows me the biggest problem is getting them to actually agree on and come to a date as their attention span is usually shorter. I will not text to her tomorrow and wait for her to initiate. If she doesn't I'll text her on Monday around noon. I have a feeling that she would give less leeway to any type of chasing behaviour and would get turned off by it.
Yup, I can't believe I'm having all these crazy experiences and some women still find a way to suprise me.
I would love to hear your analysis and recommendations!
We made small talk a bit, she studied in the same university though 3-4 years older than me, she studied arts and giving acting classes. We goofed around a bit regarding her love for snow. Then I invited her to have a drink.
She asked me if she could kindly have my phone number or something like that. I teased her about how polite she asked for my number. She said she talked to a guy recently who did not want to give his phone number as if he "didn't wanna give it before marriage" jokingly. I told her that I was pretty open minded guy and I do give my phone no. in the context of respect and love (better worded in Turkish).
When I told her that I was free until Wednesday and asked for her availability. She deflected and wanted to call. Cool. She wants some rapport build. I said alright and she called me half an hour later. Right after I picked up and we exchanged a few words, my battery died.
I charged my battery and called her back about an hour later. We exchanged a quick pleasantries again but then her door rang and she said someone was at her door. I said cool, get that and we said by.
She texted saying her mom came and she was going home now. I said no worries and said that we were discussing her availability, she asked me if I was available and called me.
We talked a bit and she said she didn't like texting and wanted to see my energy over the phone (I agreed that text was a poor substitute for interpersonal relations). She asked me about myself like tell me about yourself, what do you do stuff like that. I laughed and said that that was to general and asked what specifically interested her. She said some stuff but then asked me what I was into sexually. Her voice trailed of when she said this as if she was unsure of herself and was apprehensive. In fact this continued throughout the topic. But I got the distinct impression that this was just a practiced move of a seductress, designed to lure men in and raise her attainability.
I chuckled and said why werent we saving that for when we actually met up. She said that she was just curious but if it made me uncomfortable we didn't have to talk about it. I said that was perfectly fine and I understood her need to screen because not every partner was remotely same and having experience tends to make one more selective asked her to go first, what did turn her on?
She said she loved pain, she loved being dominated, she enjoyed dominating men too but in terms of psychological torture such as orgasm denial not physical. I told her that orgasm denial was truly powerful and gave her a recap of Alex's 8 types of orgasms gambit, streasing that orgasm denial was one of the ways for a full body orgasm. I also said that I liked dominating girls, such as choking them and talked a bit about erotic asphyxiation (somewhere in our conversation).
She agreed and said she only had it once and said this that she was doing kegel exercises for 10 years, there was a time a guys dick got stuck in her, I asked her a bit about this (but my wandered a bit during her explanation lol), complimented on finding good sex and asked her if she ever had orgasmed from breasts smilulation, she said no nd was starting to explain sth (maybe she didn't really like that? dunno) and told her that it was indeed rare but I made my ex cum by simulating her breasts and it was priceless to see her face when she realized it. Then tied to topic back to having sex with different people were different and sometimes you found someone you just clicked exceptionally on a sexual level. I actually think the last part was not necessary as I felt like I qualified myself a little after I told her. But we both agreed that what was import was having fun.
I said let's keep some things for when we meet up and we made some small talk. Then I asked her what was her availability, she told me "you're free on tuesday and wednesday right?" I told her it was monday and tuesday. She said okay lets decide tomorrow then, I didn't insist and said sure.
I was pretty high during the interaction and wasnt super suave. In case you got my meaning wrong, I wasn't nervous at all or didn't stutter at all but I think I could have made a better job of getting her to talk more, teasing her and flirting more. My demeanour was half amused / half matter-of-fact. But this is good because next time this happens I will be even more in control.
This is obviously an experienced and highly novelty seeking girl, crazy girl in another word. I do alright with crazy but my experience shows me the biggest problem is getting them to actually agree on and come to a date as their attention span is usually shorter. I will not text to her tomorrow and wait for her to initiate. If she doesn't I'll text her on Monday around noon. I have a feeling that she would give less leeway to any type of chasing behaviour and would get turned off by it.
Yup, I can't believe I'm having all these crazy experiences and some women still find a way to suprise me.
I would love to hear your analysis and recommendations!
