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I was on Facebook.
Apparently, i joined David Tian's facebook group for awhile to help some guys there. Apparently too early, i got caught up with a guy who is more interested in reactions than results. I immediately left after a few days. The thing is I don't blame him but i just have no time for this. As Chase noted on Dunning Kruger effect, this is not an ego thing. If you can't take an advice, don't be in that place. IF you want to be in a place, you have to compromise and listen even a little. People like to see effort. Women like to see effort. IT's not an overnight thing and this is where we remind each other. I have done my part learning why he respond that way and i will improvise but will he change his way of getting advice? Probably not so.
It's annoying but afterawhile, it becomes forgiving for me and i believe for those who have expertise. But i just want to spend less time arguing with people who don't get the basics right. That's why i left.
Get your foundations right first. but i guess the journey look so much fun until the house crumbles and you have to built your forgotten foundations. I know this because my dance routine crumbles after many years because i didn't get the basics right at all, and you occasionally have to go back to fundamentals to clean it up.
Zac
Apparently, i joined David Tian's facebook group for awhile to help some guys there. Apparently too early, i got caught up with a guy who is more interested in reactions than results. I immediately left after a few days. The thing is I don't blame him but i just have no time for this. As Chase noted on Dunning Kruger effect, this is not an ego thing. If you can't take an advice, don't be in that place. IF you want to be in a place, you have to compromise and listen even a little. People like to see effort. Women like to see effort. IT's not an overnight thing and this is where we remind each other. I have done my part learning why he respond that way and i will improvise but will he change his way of getting advice? Probably not so.
It's annoying but afterawhile, it becomes forgiving for me and i believe for those who have expertise. But i just want to spend less time arguing with people who don't get the basics right. That's why i left.
Get your foundations right first. but i guess the journey look so much fun until the house crumbles and you have to built your forgotten foundations. I know this because my dance routine crumbles after many years because i didn't get the basics right at all, and you occasionally have to go back to fundamentals to clean it up.
Zac
