I Lost. Why?

[Mr Mistah]

Lost a competition for a girl today.


And I'm upset


The girl kept saying we can't keep doing this


I ignored it as token resistance and kept kissing her neck


But 15 - 20 min later she chose my homie over me and was quite open about it

So open that she explained why she chose him over me

She didn't explain specifics. Just said that he started earlier than me

I kept an open mind about it and kept telling her that she doesnt have to keep explaining herself.

But she chose my homie. Who I am good friends with

But truth is I HATE losing

I HATE coming second place

I had Social proof - was flirting with other girls in the vicinity

To me he was a nuisance interrupting my set. But he ended up winning

It was a group setting

Some girl liked me.Was touchy up to a point. But I still lost. Apparently he had started on her earlier.

Please help me become strong.
Please help me become a Pimp.
Please help me become a Boss

What is it that I miss in my vibe

I can't keep losing

 

[Rakehell]

The girl kept saying we can't keep doing this


I ignored it as token resistance and kept kissing her neck


But 15 - 20 min later she chose my homie over me and was quite open about it

Why didn’t you lead her out of where you were?

If she wasn’t down to leave, why’d you keep kissing her neck and not back off to focus more on the girls who seemed down? Or try to circle back later?

Kissing her neck for 20 minutes when she isn’t ready to be taken somewhere, and you aren’t alone seems like a huge waste of time.

 

[Mr Mistah]

Kissing her neck for 20 minutes when she isn’t ready to be taken somewhere, and you aren’t alone seems like a huge waste of time.

We were under the influence

She wasn't ready to pull

Which is why I was trying to amp burying temperature.

I am more measured now and I think I overdid the touching.

But I'm still abit in the dark over why him not me.

 

[Mr Mistah]

Update:

I definitely overdid the touching.

Videos from the previous night confirm

She enjoyed my presence for a while but I overdid it. Got sloppy cause of the alcohol

Turns out the guy who took her had been patiently waiting near us for an in - and I gave him one lol

Less upset now that I know I was the reason behind my undoing

Can damage control fix this?

Even after she outright chose him?